How do I get an American guy to fall for me so I can move there?

[Anonymous]

I tried this I’ve came close a few times but when push came to shove they would talk about buying my flight ticket then left.. I have another guy is from there who works for a famous signer who I met spontaneously through a friend we hooked up but I’ve known him since June and he has not ever even briefly mentioned me visiting him. But he does want to see me again so we shall see. I’ve been using tinder plus and changed my location but they seem to go ghost when they realise I’m from the UK.

[Anonymous]

You don’t fall in love for the purpose of moving somewhere. People don’t like to be used. If you like American men, date American men, but do it because you just want to be with them in general. If it happens that you move there, so be it, or if they move there, so be it.

[Asker]

I know maybe I should just settle for vacationing there until I finish school and try move there the real way through work or a college programme instead of using people because karma is real and I’ve tried a few guys and it’s not worked out

[BeMuse]

It would probably be easier to just immigrate legally to the USA for work/school on a visa with honest intentions wanting to be a citizen of our nation some day. When here, you'd have opportunities to date all sorts of men and finds someone who is compatible with you for the right reasons. Then maybe that would lead to a relationship that gave you a fast track to citizenship.

[Asker]

Yeah you are right I think realistically they maybe don’t feel a strong enough connection virtually to want to pursue a serious relationship with someone they never met face to face it’s understandable but at least it gives me a goal to focus on, employment/school visa.

[Anonymous]

Why would any woman want an American man?

[Asker]

Because I have vacationed there every year of my upbringing and I really prefer it there I want to move there maybe I should just focus on school and maybe work there when I’m qualified instead

[ThebestIndian]

What the hell is this? Haha. Are you for real?

[Asker]

100% serious