He said he wants to get over his ex first before getting with me?

[Anonymous]

What should I do? It’s been a month since we met and two weeks since we started showing interest.

[quaranta]

Well one month is anyway a very short time, but that is also an appropriate time to understand each other's intentions. It seems that he means he is not ready for a relationship in general and to wait more time before keep dating, or, he means he wants to respect you because he is still thinking a lot about his ex and that wouldn't be fair.
I think you should talk with him more about this, to understand first of all if he actually wants to really get over his ex or if unconsciously he wants to get her back; then understanding what he is doing to get over her so you'd understand what are the perspectives about that (if he will be more mentally free soon, or not).
He has to give you the tools to evaluate the situation and be able to decide if it's the case to wait or not.

[Guy13]

If he is recently out of this relationship then it will not be anytime soon. I won't to know that there has been at least 6 months "No Contact" before I start caring and/or emotionally bonding with another. Anything without 6 months of no contact or viewing or whatever else is not one who is ready to bring a whole other person into their life.

You know once his Ex finds out about 3 months in on you two... that she will be reaching out one more time trying to get him back or destroy you two. Two months apart is one month of Anger and one month of Missing the Ex. So, about time you think things are going good he is just starting to miss her. And 3 months from then, he will be choosing between you two while keeping the other "connected" to him.

I would not be in any kind of rush. Hope this works out like you wish it too.

[ChillaxingLove]

If he says that then listen and create boundaries. Some guys say that but then still want to have sex. Essentially it becomes friends with benefits without you even noticing.

[Surely]

I would say that he was a honest man. Whenever he is ready for a relationship. He’s a keeper!

[Wise4myage]

Tell him to get back with you when he knows for sure his relationship with his ex is over.

[boggboss]

All u can do is wait