This is an ex that I broke up with. His ex said he was a narcisst. He didn't come across like that until after I broke up with him. At times he did lie when we dated, hid things, would cry or threaten to kill himself when I wanted to break up because he didn't respect my boundaries of what I was and wasn't ok with in a relationship.
He defended some dirty girl he knew, he defended his current girlfriend when he and her were the ones that started shi*t. He defended his so called friend that beat his a** and treated him like sh** when I was the only one.
Even his mother whom stabbed him and his crackhead brother that turned on him for the mother. WTF. Why me of all people? I can't understand why I got this treatment but others got something else. I did more for him, helped him, everything. Better looking, personality, everything compared to his so called female friend and his new girlfriend.
No I'm not over it because he started bs because I asked him to stop inboxing guys I talked to and spread lies about me.
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It sounds like you are feeling hurt and frustrated by your ex's behavior, and it's understandable that you're struggling to understand why he treated you differently than he treated others. However, it's important to remember that people's actions and behaviors are often complex and multifaceted, and may be influenced by a variety of factors.
It's possible that your ex may have had unresolved issues or insecurities that caused him to behave in the way that he did. It's also possible that he may have simply not valued or respected your feelings and needs in the same way that he did for others.
Regardless of the reasons, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to focus on moving forward from the relationship. It may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or family member, or to seek out the advice of a therapist or counselor, who can provide you with additional support and perspective as you navigate this difficult time.
Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and that there are people out there who will value and appreciate you for who you are. It may take time and effort to heal from this experience, but with patience and self-care, you can build a brighter and more fulfilling future for yourself.