I’m 27 this year. I find the idea of playing hard to get and throwing hints to someone you want to sleep with pointless. If I want to sleep with you, I’ll be straightforward and let you know, If I want to go on a date with you I’ll ask you straight out. My sisters call it desperation but it’s not. I’m not begging anyone I’m just making my intentions known. Why are men intimidated by my straightforwardness? And why aren’t more women like that?
I can appreciate that. I think for some people, it just comes as a shock. It is unusual and they aren't sure how to process it. Or they think "Are they like this with everyone?" So while I do like when people are straightforward, as it's just simpler, I also understand how it can be interpreted poorly.
But yeah, I think it would be great if women, or everyone for that matter, were a bit more open, honest, and direct with what they want. Saves a lot of time.
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Men aren't intimidated by you. They probably just figure you got a screw loose because women LIVE for these games. However if you're just trying to get your f*** on with guys then that's probably why they're turning you down. No worthwhile guy sleeps around like that.
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The men who you perceive as
intimidated aren't secure enough to handle it. You are a big outlier when it comes to this.Some men are some are not. Honestly I'd appreciate the straightforwardnes.
I wish every woman was that straightfoward, I hate guessing.
Its refreshing
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