My boyfriend says his ex is prettier than me, and I'm the "4th hottest girl he's slept with". Should I be mad?

[Anonymous]

For context, I am the one that started this conversation.

My boyfriend was telling me about how he has never been more attracted to anyone than he has to me. I was surprised, since I know his ex girlfriend is a model, so I asked if he was telling the truth. He said that even though his ex is "objectively prettier" than me, he is more attracted to me than anyone else.

I then asked if that meant I was the second hottest girl he had been with. He then told me that I was 4th hottest out of 16 :( . He kept trying to explain that he was more attracted to me than any of them, but he was just speaking from an "objective perspective", and that he "doesn't like to lie."

I know I kind of started this conversation, but I feel so sad. Am I crazy for being sad about this?

[teamvic]

I meann he didn't really go with the BEST method , but what are you gonna be mad at him for? Being honest?🤔 he should've 100 lied to you though and told you you were the prettiest or at least the SECOND 😂 but hey as he says, he's interested in you the most out of all of them so I guess you should be happy. You can't blame him you asked him the question and he answer🤔

But I get it though, that's like if my girl was like "nah I've had bigger dicks but don't worry honey yours is the right size for me and I love it." Like thanks😐...😂 but if they're being honest then who are we to be mad about it... For the record. That never happened its just an example😆

[spartan55]

Maybe you won't start stupid conversations like that again?

[misogynistic_pig]

It is a method used by pick up artists, the objective is to lower your self-esteem so that you feel insecure and need to seek your approval.

[misogynistic_pig]

His approval

[Anonymous]

I don't get the problem. If she's hotter, she's hotter

[tinydiva1991]

At least he was honest.

[In_Trance]

Dump him

[Anonymous]

4th 😂😂😂