What if, despite the fact that she's ugly, she's still mushy as hell and can't even imagine concluding that she'll just have to focus on work instead? And at any friend gathering, no one makes eye contact with her when they tell stories, as no one cares what she thinks of what they say. It's such an empty, disappointing life.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. For every type of person, there are people who are drawn to that type of person. I personally find today's idealized beauty to be plastic, fake and uninteresting.
Rather than accept and live a label that limits our opportunities, talk with people who know you best and ask them to make lists of your positive attributes and your challenges. They can send them anonymously, if they'd prefer.
Turn those lists into a single list, recording how many times a particular attribute is listed. Let's say one person says you have a good sense of humor. That doesn't mean you have a good sense of humor. It probably means your sense of humor is similar to theirs. If multiple people identify the same attribute, there is something to that attribute.
Reach out to those who helped with the list and ask them to clearly share how they see that attribute and how it impacts them or appears to help you move in a positive direction. Never minimize something others appreciate. If lots of people love your smile, but you think your lips are too thin, learn how to make the most of what already exists rather than attempt to be something you're not.
You wouldn't want others to deny you the opportunity to enjoy something you find enjoyable, so don't deny others the opportunity to enjoy something they enjoy. This is common with women who have small breasts who refuse to allow guys who appreciate small breast the opportunity to enjoy them. They prefer getting implants, which many guys see as a turnoff.
Freckles, color of eyes or hair, or height don't make a person ugly. It's usually the person's attitude, how they treat others or not taking basic care of their body and mind that turns a person ugly... all things within their control. You may have heard of guys being drawn to someone they view as beautiful, only to see them as ugly when they open their mouth.
Don't give in to labels. Make the most of what you have to offer, show you care about others (without ignoring self-care), show people yourself in action by getting involved with meaningful projects, choose compatible partners and love your partner openly and honestly. Never seek more than you bring to the relationship, and make sure what you bring to the relationship is what your partner values.
How you feel determines how you look. If you feel smart, you'll look smart. If you feel sexy, you'll look sexy. If you feel loved, you'll look beautiful.
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Maybe I should provide a service (no monetary value), donate my time to taking girls out on dates that just don't get out much/are alone. No dating pressure, just someone to talk to and enjoy moments in life so they don't have to be alone. Go for coffee, walks, etc., maybe catch a movie once trust is built.
No intimacy/personal contact, just be there for them, like a stepping stone to fill the gap until they find the one they are meant to be with. Then I just step aside.
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Be in good physical fitness, dress well,
Lol I've seen some very interesting couples, so Im convinced that there is someone for everyone. Further, plenty of men pass on beautiful women because of their character all the time. So looks, contrary to popular belief, isn't all men care about. Focusing on becoming the best version of yourself is how anyone becomes more attractive to the opposite sex.
I don't think there are any girls who look that beautiful. Now I have met some real good looking girls, having spent a good part of my life in the performing industry, but I am talking about everyday girls. The truth is that some girls just know how to dress better and look after themselves. Show me any ordinary girl and I'll turn her into a deva. Also a girl has got to find her SEX APPEAL,,,,,, thats the important part, to be sexy is more appealing than just dumb beauty.
Iâm sure youâve seen the many young men on GaG who find it very difficult to get a date. Statistics show a large percentage of men in their 20s are not in a relationship. These are probably not the most attractive guys, but if she wants a relationship she could âswipe rightâ on one of them instead of only pursuing very attractive men.
Like their personality are even their body cause even if you are ugly you should still have other qualities what about caring for another person or loving someone that needs to be loved or being their for someone when they don't have anyone else. If a person feels like that and gives up on love they must don't have any other qualities.
Everything else. Just like ugly guys that nobody wants. You either suck it up and deal with it, going into hobbies and other distractions or you wallow in self pity. I get their plight, I'm living it right now, but I'm doing well enough on my own.
Damn, you really don't like this woman.
If she's not doing great in the dating world, there are other means of emotional fulfillment to be had but it sounds like you're not really her friend so maybe you should just stay out of her life.This better be a hypothetical question. You better not be talking about yourself here... seriously.
We guys always admire healthy fit body type , well dressed and talented base additionally have a perfect teeth adds a lot to a smile.
Just try 2 months heavy fitness life , healthy food and a lot of drinking water and you will like your own body before anyone does and through time belive you are good-looking
Picking themselves up and better themselves and not let shallow people kick them to the curb over and over!
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1. Certainly you are not talking about yourself!
2. How enthusiastic is she about wild, vigorous sex?
there are billions of things she can focus on. she can kill two birds with one stone if she focuses on her health because she will be healthier and healthier people are obviously more attractive
You would be surprised sometimes who can find someone willing to date or marry them. Especially for women - there are a lot of lonely men who would probably love to have a woman (even one that isn't especially attractive.)
Hard to say. I've seen women who think they are ugly who simply are not at all unattractive. Maybe she belongs to that group and just needs to meet different people.
Shut it!..
Ugly women, Get more Swipe in on Tinder and public attention than good looking menHave these "ugly" women been turned down by the billions of people on earth? Let's start there...
If they have, kudos to them for getting a billion and a half chances... then they might want to take warm bath and reflect...There's a woman on this Earth who has a condition that makes her sweat smell like shit. She is married.
The same thing a guy has to do which is work learn a skill get a hobby find something youâre passionate about
Ugly women just have a million options less in men than beautiful women. Ugly men on the other hand have no hope at all.
If that is you in your user profile picture, you are far from ugly.
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