Not close with him at all, just friendly with him. He never tapped me before so just found it odd. He did it twice throughout the day.
It's difficult to say exactly what it means when a guy taps your shoulder while saying hi, as different people may have different reasons for doing so. However, in general, tapping someone on the shoulder while saying hi can be a friendly and casual way of greeting someone, and may be a sign that he is comfortable around you and feels at ease in your presence.
It's also possible that he may have tapped your shoulder simply to get your attention or to make sure you noticed him. Again, without more context it's hard to say for certain.
If you're unsure about his intentions or if the gesture made you feel uncomfortable, it may be helpful to observe his behavior around you in the future and see if there are any other signs that he may be interested in you or if he is simply being friendly. If you continue to feel uncertain or uncomfortable, it may be worth having a conversation with him to clarify his intentions and to establish clear boundaries.
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I personally don't touch most folks, especially women, if I'm not at least close to them by some margin. But more importantly you need to think of how you feel about it. Do you mind being touched on the shoulder or do you want him to stop? If you like it, try touching him on the shoulder when you say hi. If you don't, then set some boundaries. People are all different with their touch barriers. Some folks can't read the mood, some can.
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