Guy going cold on me after we’ve slept together?

[JJm1234]

Was speaking to this guy since last year and about a month ago we decided to met up and have sex. Before that, we would speak regularly on FaceTime every night most of the time he would ask to FaceTime with me so that we could have phone sex but since we’ve actually met and had sex in person he hasn’t asked me once for a FaceTime. Instead it’s been me the one always asking but it’s just made me feel like he doesn’t need that kind of thing anymore since he’s had the real thing. We’re only friends as we’ve both maintained we want to be single but we’re planning on meeting up again in a couple of months time. We text everyday but it’s just that he hasn’t asked for FaceTime conversations with me anymore. It’s made me feel a bit daft considering he always asked for them before we had sex (sometimes I would ask for them too, but mainly it was him)

maybe I’m just being paranoid about it

[Anonymous]

It's possible that this guy is simply busy or distracted with other things in his life and hasn't had the time or energy to initiate FaceTime conversations with you. However, it's also possible that he's lost interest or has moved on since you had sex.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about how you're feeling and to express your concerns. Ask him if everything is okay and if he's still interested in maintaining your friendship. If he's not interested or doesn't respond, it may be a sign that he's no longer interested in pursuing things further.

Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to focus on building relationships with people who are interested and invested in you. If this guy is not meeting your needs or making you feel valued and appreciated, it may be worth exploring other options and focusing on building relationships with people who are interested in pursuing a more meaningful connection with you.

[LiamJHayden]

He got what he wanted. Some people are like that.

[spartan55]

Why can't you just ask him?