Met this guy online but I’m unsure if he’s telling me the truth about his age?

[Anonymous]

He seems really sweet and really nice and he seems to really like me.
But I can’t help but feel he’s lying to me about his age I’m 23 and he’s telling me he’s 27 but o mean his hair is grey…
Like I feel he looks in his 39 lol
And then I’m also paranoid as I seen a baby pic of a little boy on the wall and now I’m convinced he has children..
as he told me he’s renting a room somewhere and I’m like what if…
He says he’s being honest with me and I wanna meet him but I’m afraid what if I sleep with this guy and find out so much crap about him it will really hurt me.
Also he says he has no social media only snap chat so doesn’t help me much

[GreekLorrd]

It's understandable to feel unsure and cautious about meeting someone online, especially if you have doubts about their age and personal situation. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being in any new relationship.

You can try asking him more questions about his life, like if he has any children or if he can show you any other photos of himself. If he's not willing to share more information or seems evasive, that could be a red flag.

You could also suggest meeting in a public place first and getting to know each other better before considering anything physical. Trust your instincts and take things at a pace that feels comfortable for you. If anything doesn't feel right, it's okay to walk away from the situation.

[Asker]

Yeah he’s always saying to me to ask him anything but I’m holding back because I don’t want to be too much ye know but defo gunna start asking them now. Like with snap chat he does send me photos of him self and voice notes but like the grey hair it’s freaking me out I never seen a 27 year old with grey hair.
And then another thing he told me he suffers with Anxiety and is on medication for it..
I’m just really afraid of meeting this guy he lives 3 and half hours from me and is talking about having me go down to him and brining me places he seems too much nearly ye know

[GreekLorrd]

It's good that he's encouraging you to ask him anything, and it's important that you feel comfortable asking him about anything that is concerning you. As for his age, it's possible that he could be telling the truth, but it's also understandable that you have some doubts given the gray hair. It might be worth asking him if he has any medical conditions or if he's been under a lot of stress that could have caused the premature graying.

Regarding his anxiety and medication, it's important to be supportive and understanding of his situation. However, if you feel like his anxiety is making it difficult for him to function normally, it might be worth suggesting that he seek additional help from a therapist or counselor.

As for meeting him, it's understandable that you feel hesitant. It's important to trust your instincts and take things at a pace that feels comfortable for you. If you do decide to meet him, it might be a good idea to do so in a public place and let someone know where you're going and who you'll be with.

[Asker]

Yeah maybe I’ll just ask him all the things I’m unsure about instead of beating around the bush. Thanks so much for the advise

[GreekLorrd]

You're welcome! Communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to be honest and open with each other. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[FireFox001]

Lol I am 29 but my hair is greying really hard due to the stress of my work. Military aviator. About 20 near death experiences. Lack of sleep. My hair is turning grey faster than you could imagine...

[Asker]

That’s understandable in your job and honestly respect u fair play for doing it! But this guy is 27 gunna be 28 in December and is hair is so grey and like he looks older too he’s a chef

[FireFox001]

Lol that is weird tho

[Asker]

Ah feck ye hardly think he’s lying to me

[FireFox001]

Sorry to hear.

You might want to try a legit grey hair guy :D

JK. Although I have been told that gray hair gives me more "character".

[Jamie05rhs]

"what if I sleep with this guy and find out so much crap about him it will really hurt me."

That's why you don't sleep with people before you find out who they really are.

[Asker]

Okay then

[EpicSnail]

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck. What 27-year-old has grey hair lol?

[Asker]

Oh god I know and when he told me about him self he told me the year he was born in which is weird because no one says the year they were born in when saying when your birthday is

[Ironic_Method]

I mean... you can always meet with him and NOT sleep with him.

[Asker]

True

[Degenerate]

Lol @ cringe chatgpt user

[Asker]

What

[Degenerate]

Greeklord is using chatgpt in his responses lol

[Asker]

What’s that

[Degenerate]

It's an AI you can ask questions; he's using the chats responses as answers

[Asker]

Ahh okay

[Degenerate]

Lol hide his opinion that's so gay

[Asker]

Well it’s better than your answer

[Degenerate]

That's because I'm formulating my answer, but now I will refrain from such advice

[Asker]

Cool

[Degenerate]

Jk lol, here's what you do... you be completely honest with him. Tell him that you're skeptical about certain aspects of his life (obviously provide details as to which ones), assuming he's some what mature, I don't see why he would take offense. (Unless he's hiding something)

[EpicSnail]

It is an AI chatbot. He is asking the AI your question and then copy pasting its answers.

[Asker]

@degenerate can u suggest how i could even ask about his age lol