Are soul ties real? Is it possible for the other person to feel what the other person is feeling after sex?

[Anonymous]

After having sex with my friend who I have known for three years now i notice the next day i became depressed. Very emotional i been noticing that he has been giving me hints of jealousy and possessiveness he doesn’t want me to think about another guy or talk to another guy but he won’t tell me that he just shares videos or statuses related to that, he asked me why I was avoiding him again i lied and told him I been busy, then he texted me on Sunday and told me he was thinking about me. Is it possible that if this is a soul tie this can turn into love possibly into a relationship because we bonded through sex but before we had sex we had an emotional conversation i open up to him emotionally and so did he. On Tuesday i texted him saying good morning and how I was going to start checking up on him more often, I’ve also been feeling more attached to him not sure if he feels that too being attached to me as well.

[RespectfulGuy]

Let's attempt to answer by evaluation the mechanics of sex.

In the most crude form, sex is just a penis thrusting a vagina. And it can end as quick as under a minute. If the couple are ONS and knew each other a couple of hours ago, then I think there's nothing more than a physical release.

In the spiritual form, sex is the climax of an entire day of romantic bonding. This may include legal binding where the couple swear their love for each other "till death do us part". Then the fine dining, the romantic activities, the sharing of life's beauty, indulging in trusts for each other, and floods of endearment.

In short, before undressing their bodies they undressed their minds and hearts and souls. Connecting and bond in every aspect of their life.

Finally, sex where they join their already connected persons in flesh.

Many called this love making.

I think this is what you mean by soul tie.

But mind tie, I think one cannot do so because marriage counselors still advise couples to talk and communicate.

To conclude, sex can be crude or spiritual. It may bond couples but may not go to the extent of one knowing another's thoughts without communication.

This I think is the limit of sex aka lovemaking.

[Berethor]

Souls are real? make sense to bond to him if you had sex, but women can lose the ability.

[Asker]

What do you mean women can lose the ability

[Berethor]

The stats show that, a woman that been with many men lose the ability to bond.

[Asker]

Makes sense why i easily bonded with this man i had intimacy with i don’t sleep with every man

[Berethor]

Yea you didn't lost the ability to bond, I think that it's better to not desensitize to that.

[smashleyy]

Yes I believe in soul ties cause I’ve been trying to break one with someone I haven’t seen in a year and it’s been a bitch, but I don’t want to feed possible delusions. all soul ties don’t equal love or are healthy. Soul tie is simply a intense spiritual connection between two that results in a learning experience. Not all lessons are suppose to cause turmoil but only time will tell

[Asker]

Thank you

[spartan55]

So you feel more attached to him and show him that by blowing him off... female logic at its finest.

[Asker]

Yes because I don’t know what he wants out of this. I don’t know if wants to keep things casual or not?

[Asker]

And i don’t want to get my feelings hurt

[spartan55]

So you ASK him, and you talk about it. What you are doing will make him walk. Do you not understand that?

[spartan55]

And how the hell does he know what YOU want?

[Asker]

Well i told him what I want it i want more than just sex he want it to be there for me and help me in my healing journey

[spartan55]

So what's the problem then?

[Asker]

Not sure if he only said that cause he want it sex from me.

[spartan55]

Does his actions align with his words?

[Asker]

Yes he checks up on me and wants to hangout with me plus have sex with me.

[spartan55]

So... this is a you problem, not him.

[Asker]

Basically

[Summeroflove]

I think so. This is why you need to pray and repent of it. That’s why sex is for marriage.

[Simslover92]

Yes they definitely are.

[itsalyssaagain]

Yes they are.