Why did this guy tell me I look uncomfortable at the club?

[Anonymous]

I was there yesterday, in the middle of the circle just listening to the music. I'm not a good dancer though haha so I always just bob? my head I guess, it's metal anyway so. There's lots of people who do that. Then suddenly a guy came up to me and pulled me aside and told me I look uncomfortable when I wasn't? I was drunk as fuck, I have social anxiety though and a resting sad face so that could be it I guess.

But I'm scared that people assume I don't want to be there. I always love it and literally stay until the lights go on lol? Hearing that I basically look unhappy made me kinda sad

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He wasn't hitting on me by the way

[Truthatanycost]

This could be your turning point. The club scene is low vibrational and unhealthy. Your subconscious and soul is probably screaming at you to place it in a higher vibrational environment. Being drunk dulls your senses and is only required when you want to block out the unhappiness you feel within. The social anxiety that you mentioned... would you still suffer that among those that always had your back, that were on a path of ascension, looking out for you and wanting the best for you? You will never find any of that in those clubs. Ask yourself why clubs exist and you will realize...

[Asker]

I'm actually just there for the music and because there's people who like the same music as me, I found many great people there already actually. It's not a mainstream club but I know what you mean

[Truthatanycost]

Then you aren't ready. In time you will come to discover this.

[In_Trance]

Probably because he looked at you and thought you looked uncomfortable in the club

[Asker]

But a lot of people don't dance a lot. There's even people who will just sit in the same spot all night and do nothing and I don't think they get that lol

[In_Trance]

sitting in the same spot all night would be perceived as you wanting to be anywhere else; almost like you're uncomfortable

[Anonymous]

I have met many girls on club just for hangout n drink... it's completely normal but whenever I approached them we ended up having best sex in my car... lol