My ex and I split up 4 years ago.
We ended things mutually in the beginning then we tried again, while we started things again he was seeing a few girls one of them being the girl he is now married to.
I didn’t know about her at the time when we tried to sort things out and he messed me about for months and eventually moved away to another country with this girl.
I was doing a lot better without him when he left and slowly got myself out of a bad place and then he started messaging me again. I ignored him for a while but then I stupidly fell for all his crap again…
He told me missed me, told me he was single, that he was moving back and wanted to see me. Text me everyday for 10months during covid and told me all this BS about how he couldn’t fly home cos of Covid. Would phone me, FaceTime me the lot - ALL WHILE HE WAS LIVING WITH THIS GIRL.
I confronted him about her and he blocked me on everything. 2 weeks later I found out he had proposed to her.
They got married last year - we have a lot of mutual friends so they unfortunately keep me in the loop even though it kills me.
He unblocked me out of the blue and messaged me saying he loved and missed me and asked me to send him photos of my boobs. Is he crazy?
I have blocked him but part of me wants to send him a photo of my boobs telling him to f*ck off forever and hope he thinks of me forever because he will never see me again…I’d love karma to bite him in the ass but I don’t want to break that poor girls heart. She knew about me but she ‘trusts’ him.
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Based on what you've shared, it sounds like your ex has been behaving in a manipulative and disrespectful way towards you and his current partner. It's not healthy or respectful to be in a committed relationship and simultaneously pursue someone else, or to pressure someone into sending explicit photos.
It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional boundaries in this situation, and to avoid engaging in any behavior that could be harmful to yourself or others. It's understandable to feel angry and hurt by your ex's actions, but sending explicit photos or seeking revenge is not likely to bring resolution or closure to the situation.
It may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends or a therapist to process your feelings and develop healthy coping strategies. It's also important to consider setting clear boundaries with your ex, such as blocking him and avoiding further contact, to protect yourself from further emotional harm.
Thirty years old and you to send your ex a 'final boob pic'? It won't have the effect you want, trust me.
I just blocked him.
Lol you like his attention...
You want him even he is married...
Lol sending boobs pic to married men will make you side chick...