I went on a date with a guy and he asked me if he makes me nervous. Is this bad? What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

I said no and I asked why does it seem like Im nervous and he's like yes - I think it's because maybe I can't seem to find anything and get rushed and flustered around him. Is this a turn off to men, I laugh a lot too, maybe it sounds like nervous laughs? I don't know please help me

[slatyb]

He sensed your anxiety and was expressing sympathy. It's ok to be nervous. When I met my wife she was recently out of a horrible marriage and she was so anxious her hands were shaking. She was too young to have a tremor, so I figured she had a horrible experience and was struggling. I was sympathetic because I had also been in a horrible marriage, but had been out of it for some years before I met her.

[Billlewis]

I think it's definitely something to keep an eye on. Guys aren't supposed to make women nervous; woman should always make men nervous, period.