Should I let my male friend know that my feelings are gone?

[dophix]

I confessed my feelings to him last week. After that, I evaluated myself if it's a phrase or not. I realized it was just a phase. I don't think it will hurt him because it's clear he wasn't interesting to me. I don't expect him to like me back, though.

I noticed something off about him. I'm not head over heels. It's just feelings so🤷‍♀️

he said "take it slow , no rushing. Let's see if we develop feelings "after I confessed to him. We are still good friends though.

[stoicity]

If you want to still explore your options and find yourself such as what you like and what not, then don't keep him waiting he's ain't gonna appreciate it. Let him go, you're speaking out of chemicals reaction in your brain and when the dopamine and serotonin deplites you're gonna have a hard wake up call.

When one falls in love that's a completely different situation to deal with nothing would matter what was agreed, since it's a strong force it will force you to cut all ties on a bad terms to save yourself.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah otherwise you're leading him on.

[dophix]

What do u mean by that

[BoopBoopBeep]

You told him you have feelings. He thinks you have feelings, if he develops then and THEN you're like "no i don't feel that anymore" you'd be a phenomenal B.

[dophix]

Better tell him the truth before it's too late

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah because otherwise you risk the friendship too

[dophix]

I really care about our friendship, though

[BoopBoopBeep]

Then stop wasting time and tell him

[Genie23]

Yes before in case he starts liking you. It's better to be honest than let him develop feelings for you and start having expectations before getting hurt because he finds out you were over him a while ago.

[ohsheeT]

Well when you do that just be careful on how you tell him otherwise he's going to be over at your house looking for it all day long is this it is this what you're looking for a how about this look what I found in the bathroom resist it

[Iron_Man]

I feel that you’re just trying to protect yourself and that if he was interested in you, you would go for it you don’t have to cover it up it’s OK if you had feelings

[MeatPuppet]

Your feelings disappeared after a week? That was quick.

[dophix]

I don't know. It just happens.

[DextroShade]

This is why men and women can't really be friends.

[KrakenAttackin]

I would expect this question from a level one troll.

[runnerboy]

I think it is always to be honest.

[Wise4myage]

That would be a wise thing to do.

[Jamie05rhs]

You're a terrible person. Figure your shit out or never speak to a man again.

[dophix]

How?

[Jamie05rhs]

If you like a guy, you should like him, period (unless something major changes). You changing your mind in one week is extremely wishy-washy.

[Jamie05rhs]

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[dophix]

Bruh, I'm the one who is catching feelings! He is aware of it. We agreed to take it slow. He never said something or rejected me. Guess what, nothing happened! I have to remind him all the time about our plans. So, it's clear he is not interesting.

Why would wait? The signs are cleaaarrr

[Jamie05rhs]

@dophix honey, what part of "take it slow" do you not understand?
Are you expecting him to propose tomorrow?

[dophix]

IKR! I noticed something off about him. Besides it just feelings. I'm not in love 🤦‍♀️

[Jamie05rhs]

@dophix I don't think you understand what I'm saying. I'm saying he literally said that he wants to take things slow. And it's only been a week. So why are you freaking out?

[Jamie05rhs]

And what exactly do you think was "off" about him?

[MementoMori777]

I'd say yea so he's aware of it now

[In_Trance]

That deescalated quickly