Guys, Did I make a mistake by friendzoning him? (Page 2)

Question

I recently met a guy a month ago and we went on a whirlwind romance. The chemistry was insane! We had everything in common and things got sexual really quickly!  He’s also a bit arrogant, and thinks he’s better and more intelligent than everyone else because he's a scientist. The first night we met he scolded me for not wearing toenail polish and demanded that my nails be painted all the time. He was surprised that my apartment was nicer than his. He seemed to really get a rush whenever I complimented him and would smile. Anyways, he broke up with his girlfriend a month before we met so I friend zoned him because I didn’t want to be a rebound chick. It seemed he respected my decision and was totally up for hanging out as friends. He even suggested watching sports as friends which I was really excited about.  We were really friendly via text that week as friends and it was finally starting to feel like he was putting in the effort to get to know me instead of making out. But I haven't heard from him for two weeks and decided to text him. We've been texting back and forth but his replies are now delayed, by like 24 hours.  I was swiping through Bumble dating app and saw his profile. He has a love poem in his bio calling himself handsome and bright, etc. . and indicates he’s looking for a relationship. I feel he never pursued that with me and it made me upset. I know I need to move on but I feel totally discarded 😭 Any advice for me? I have a feeling he’s in a relationship or has moved on to someone else.

Anonymous · Answer

Either he was negging you or he's a control freak. Either way you dodged a bullet, so don't overthink it.

Anonymous · Answer

Bottom line, you had sex way to soon, and you gave him what he wanted.

msc545 · Answer

You were the one who friendszoned him. What did you expect?

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Lol he sounds like a prick

JesseP1nk · Answer

Wait... you are upset becauses he did not pursue you? - Yes , he did! But you "didn’t want to be a rebound chick" You were offered everything on a silver plate...

Why you women make your own dramas *smh*

Anonymous · Answer

Do you know what you want? Do you second your actions

grega239 · Answer

Meh... you'll get over it

Jltakk · Answer

Sounds like a jerk. Don't see the attraction.

In_Trance · Answer

No you didn't

Anonymous · Answer

Do you want to have sex with him?

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