For the sake of the child, not you nor him, please don't even consider having kids until you're married.
Social benefits and a proper birth certificate with the names of both parents means a lot to the child's future.
And yes, you already know it: having a child is a 20-year commitment. It's serious and concern another life.
Hence please, don't even consider pregnancy until you're legally marrried. For the child's sake.
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It means he's assessing your fitness as a mother since you should have been smart enough not to have kids until you got married.
He’s not sure whether he wants a kid or not. Part of him does and part of him doesn’t.
So what happens if he decides fully he doesn’t want kids?
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Why would you have a child with a man you have not married? This is weapons grade stupid.
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