Okay so I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for almost a year. Yesterday he was screen-sharing his phone and I notice his ex girlfriend account was above mine on his recent blocked list on Instagram.(I’m on the block list bc we block each other when were being petty lol.) I found it weird how her account was above mine when he’s had her blocked before we got into a relationship. So in Order for her account name to be above mines means he recently been unblocking her, to go on her page. When I called him out on it, he tried acting confused and lying and denying it. This isn’t the first time I caught him going on his ex girlfriends page. Last year after a month of only being together he unblocked her on Instagram and I asked him why he was viewing her page and he’s said it was bc they have the same birthday and he wanted to see if she did something on her birthday. I thought that was hella weird because he swears up and down he hates her and doesn’t care about her bc she did him wrong when they were together. Anyways he keep denying it so I hung up on him. He texted me over an hour later saying it was because she was viewing his TikTok account and he was confused to why she was viewing his account on there because he has her blocked. I thought it was a weird excuse. He even said that he was asking people he knows on why and how she was viewing his TikTok…… Like why does her viewing your TikTok account gotta do with you going on her Instagram account? Like the real question is why he cares. Am I being dramatic? Am I being dumb? Because we have talked about stuff like this before we so why does he continue to do it? Sorry for the spelling and error’s!
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He obviously still feels something for her if he needs to go check on her... but I think you getting mad is a bit much.. it's not like he is getting back with her, but it is hard to just forget someone you used to love...
Y'all were being petty with each other, he unblocked her. Not a hard connection to make lol
Maybe he was checking to see if he was winning after their breakup
No love, we blocked each other on Instagram months ago and just never unblocked each other.
It means that he is not over her. He has not fully grieved and is still emotionally attached. Obviously, he got back into dating way too soon.