I get picked on by complete strangers in public as they make comments at my expense, usually comes from girls?

[Tomisworthless]

I asked a coworker why this happens to me a lot and he said it’s maybe because you look timid and afraid of confrontation. Would you guys agree, if that’s the case it explains why complete strangers have no issue making comments to insult me or humiliate me in public whether they are alone or with friends. Usually women do this too. Also would explain why I’m unattractive to women they look at my face and see a coward who doesn’t deserve sex or relationship because I wouldn’t be able to defend her our kids let alone myself if a situation were to ever arise

[Anonymous]

I remain unconvinced any of these things happen. 99% of people in public totally ignore 99% of the other people. The frequency in which you claim strangers are making such derogatory comments defies literally everything I've witnessed about public interaction over the course of my life. Are you having fun playing this persona? Are you trying to make yourself sympathetic to try and bait people into compliments? Whatever it is, it got old a long time ago.

[Tomisworthless]

Interesting psycho analysis

[Tomisworthless]

By your claim I then am in the 1% of individuals whom people target for harassment. After 30-35 years I’d assume you’d learn a thing or two about how people behave towards those they don’t value, but I’m sure you’re guilty of this behavior therefore are trying to down play it. Nice try Satan

[provokeesmokee]

Bruh it sounds like you have self esteem issues only a therapist can deal with. Get help, man.

And get friends who won't insult you.

[Tomisworthless]

No I think my self esteem is relative to how others treat me, it would be odd to have high self esteem and confidence yet be humiliated by people in life.

These people aren’t friends they are just your everyday strangers. I have no friends.

[slatyb]

In public? Where? I've never seen that happen since I left elementary school.

[Tomisworthless]

Lol happens everywhere and anywhere. This time I was at a bmw dealership getting work done and the women were 20-30s yr old salesmen.

I was just hanging out in the lobby playing with my phone just like the other guy with headphones on near me. Yet nobody said anything to him but enjoyed themselves picking on me. Guess the difference between us was he looked handsome and masculine

[slatyb]

What did they say to you?

[Billlewis]

I'll bet it turns you on, too, doesn't it?

[Tomisworthless]

No unfortunately it hurts my feelings

[Billlewis]

Then why don't you do something about it? Either stop going out in public or start lifting weights, etc.