Am I Delusional? Or does he possibly like me?

[Anonymous]

Hello!! How’re you guys? I am just inquiring about a dude who is actually my psychologist. He has been doing the whole eyebrow raising at me when I am just looking away. 👀 of course I can see this and tell myself he is just taking an interest. But then he dims the lights and puts a do not disturb sign on the door. Then he makes a deal with me about being kinder to myself and he holds my hand for literally a minute. And makes deeeeep eye contact. I’m shy 🙈 so I look away but he keeps looking. Being that he asks about my life and takes an interest I kind of am falling for him. But recently I found out he has a girlfriend. Is this just me that this man is secretly into me? I need your help! You guys are smart! What do I do also?

He likes you

He is just doing his job

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It is important to remember that psychologists are professionals and have an ethical and legal obligation to maintain appropriate boundaries with their clients. It is not appropriate or ethical for a psychologist to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with their client, and it could potentially be harmful to your well-being if this were to happen.


It is possible that the psychologist's behavior is simply a part of his therapeutic approach, and he may not have romantic or sexual intentions towards you. However, it is important to take note of any behavior that makes you uncomfortable, and to communicate your concerns to your psychologist.


It is normal to feel connected to someone who takes an interest in your well-being, but it is important to remember that your psychologist is a professional who is there to help you, not to engage in a romantic or sexual relationship with you. If you are having difficulty separating your feelings for him from the therapeutic relationship, it may be helpful to find a new therapist to work with.


In any case, I would strongly advise against acting on any feelings you may have for your psychologist, and instead focus on your own well-being and finding a therapist who can help you navigate these challenging emotions.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, but he doesn't sound very professional.

[spartan55]

I hope this is a troll post.
So because he does the 'whole eyebrow raising thing' that means he has taken a interest... okay... no. I don't know how you found out he has a girlfriend, but that alone should have stopped any thoughts of posting this. Apparently you have no respect for other people's relationships. Very classy.
He isn't into you... smh...🙄

[Asker]

Triggered lol.

[Asker]

I asked smart people to reply

[spartan55]

@asker
LOL... yeah because you don't like what I said means it isn't smart. Got it.
Keep misusing psychology buzzwords to show me how smart you aren't too.

[spartan55]

Are you defending trying to get with a man already in a relationship? I'd love to hear your defense on that...😂😂

[Asker]

No you just don’t understand what the situation is and you’re jumping to all these delusional conclusions. Lol I thought I was delusional. 🤭

[Asker]

You’re responding from being triggered not from logic.

[Asker]

Smart people ask questions they don’t feed their own narrative.

[spartan55]

No, honey. I don't have any narrative. I don't understand what situation? I responded to what YOU wrote. Not any delusional conclusions I have. I am not making anything up here, so nice try. What exactly am I missing about this oh so complicated situation? Since you are so high minded maybe you can clue me in. He raise the left eyebrow instead of the day right one?

[spartan55]

I did ask you a relevant question and you ducked it of course.

[Asker]

Maybe ask in your own post. Honey? I’m far from sweet :) This has nothing to do with whether my morals line up with yours. And I don’t really pursue people in a relationship I am just asking as I’m a curious person. Curious minds are typically not so simple. And I believe in asking rather than telling someone, who I don’t know the full situation to or their moral code, that they would indeed pursue a fictional relationship. I am asking as I am genuinely curious. Not a cheater. It wouldn’t even be me who is the cheater. Lol. So I don't know what you’re going on about to be honest. If you needed me to elaborate, you should’ve just asked. :)

[spartan55]

That's great. Anything else tough talking pink anon?

[Asker]

Yes. Learn to not project your thoughts onto strangers.

[spartan55]

Sounds good pink anon. Show yourself before you run your mouth like a coward next time and we have a deal.

[Asker]

Again with the projecting. If anything I’m trying to protect his identity. -_- you will never learn

[spartan55]

by the way you don't even know how to apply the psychobabble buzzwords you love to use. Projecting what? You are only making yourself look dumb, kind of like writing this post to begin with.

[spartan55]

Yeah curious my ass, homewrecker.

[spartan55]

His identity? That's a joke right?

[Asker]

Wrong again lol

[spartan55]

So what if he is interested, then what? You going to ask for a discount? You're fucking joke.

[spartan55]

Wrong about what?

[Asker]

You’re annoying lol 😂 leave me alone

[Asker]

You’re obviously a rude and disrespectful human. Go find somewhere else to harass. You have little compassion and need to work on that too. Good luck jerk!!!

[spartan55]

That's great. Go crawl back under your rock pink anon.

[Asker]

Ewww lol 😂 take some responsibility. You’re just another rude American. Go worship your God and country. Let’s see if he saves your ass from being a disaster.

[spartan55]

What in the world are you talking about crazy lady?

[spartan55]

by the way, he's still not into you lol.

[Asker]

I’m sure you’d know mr. American. With your guns and fighting. Lol you will never know where I’m from. You can look under all the rocks you want and I won’t be there. Mwhahahahaha. I’m insane. You better hide. Hahahahahahhaa. Also you shouldn’t use the word crazy. People take offence. Oh wait you don’t care about people. Just yourself.

[spartan55]

I surely don't care about offending you.

[Asker]

Right before you die. You’ll see a black bird eating a dead squirrel. Remember that.

[spartan55]

Sounds good.

[Asker]

Lol 😈 you’re screwed. Goodbye spartan55. Old man.

[spartan55]

How original... and stupid. Lines up with everything else you wrote.

[Anonymous]

I didn't put either because it's not his job to mess with fragile young women, but I don't think he sees it as romantic. He's just a flirt probably.

[Avicenna]

Just doing his job

[Asker]

Do you mind explaining why you think so?

[Avicenna]

There's no reason to think he is into you. He isn't even single, and it's totally unethical to date someone you're providing therapy to.

[Satishambika]

He try to use you