What kind of girls are treated as friends and Only friends
What kind of girls are the girlfriend/lovers material
What are the feelings towards her involved or how these girls must be
From your own personal point of view
Usually they just pump you and dump you. Because they’re animals. Mindless animals.
Thats usually the man’s friendzone. They’re not gonna go up to you and tell you to your face; that you look ugly, your nose is too pointy or that you have a flat a$$. And that they’ll use you to get off, because they need to f-k. NOPE!
They’ll pump you dump you.
However; majority of men are effeminate males. No testosterone. Completely undesirable. So… THEY WISH , they could pump you and dump you. LOL! 😂 And I mean MAJORITY OF THEM.
Majority of them, are classified as average Simpletons. They WISHH. They could get even an ounce of attention. Even from the average girl. Yet they can’t. Majority are XXX Addicts. Usually no muscles or strength. Usually could get their a$$ beat by another man. Usually don’t have a deep voice. Usually have mediocre bananas. 😂 Usually suffer from ED ( erectile dysfunction ). Usually are weed addicts. USUALLY!
I know you asked for feedback from men, but as someone that's been friendzoned and sisterzoned a lot, I can give my two cents-
They're not romantically attracted to you. That's it. There's no complex reason behind it. Assuming he's not married or taken, a guy will friendzone you if your personality and/or physical features aren't attractive to him-
No, that doesn't mean you're ugly or attractive- you're just not said guy's type.
I've had guys point blank tell me they like me, my personality... but aren't attractive to me "in that way" and preferred having me as their girl buddy. Which yeah, is cool.. unless you like them as more, then it sucks 😕
Especially when they come to you for dating or female advice...
If I am not fully attracted to her and her and I don’t have a lot in common , if I sense she is a selfish person that only really cares about herself and she doesn’t really have a good heart , she shows signs of being sneaky and not really trustworthy. I won’t hate her , but I won’t take it to the next level with her period, Most girls’ I have met and dated in my lifetime, don’t really grasp what it means to be in a relationship , She thinks it’s her way or no way , Those kind of Girls’s I stay away from , I will be friendly with them , but I will not commit to them , for me to commit to a girl she has to prove to me she is trustworthy and loyal , not selfish and has a good heart and she values relationships , she accepts my flaws like she expects me to accept hers , she makes me her priority the same way I make her mine , If I feel like she is just treating me like a convenience I will walk to other way
It is a feeling I get that "nope, I cannot be with this girl for more than some hours in a day." She is friends from that moment.
It does not matter to me if she is ultra successful in her career, or her body is great or not. It is just this feeling.
And when I get it, it does not even matter if she is interested in me or not. I just don't behave with her like a boyfriend would.
I have done this with some girls during my engineering. These girls were from grades D to A. So a mix bag you can say.
Hence it does not really depend on the academics or anything physical for me.
It is just the vibe I get.
*I am dense enough to not notice any hints or anything from girls, so I don't know who found me good enough.*
What if you could talk to her about any topic until 5 at the morning just talk and laugh maybe get sentimental and cry about life experiences
Is it friend or a Girlfriend?
How would a boyfriend behave vs a friend?
Im dense too lol my current boyfriend tried to ask me on a date for 18 month i refused and thought he is making fun of me
It is a friend till this point. I can say that much.
A friend will abstain from viewing you romantically, sexually. At least not in front of you. A boyfriend has that section unlocked.
18 months is a lot! At least you figured it out. Better late than sorry, I guess?
Lol true
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a) Most men are shallow and value looks over personality, so they friendzone you, when they don't find you physically attractive. It doesn't matter if you have a PhD from Harvard, a pilot license, speak 10 languages, make 6-7 figures, are a genius, or a nuclear scientist, charismatic, funny, kind, stylish etc. They'd rather date a supermodel with a mediocre personality over you.
b) the other possibility is he's already in a relationship
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I know within the first 2 mins of knowing you whether im attracted to you or not , guys are highly visual creatures but you do also need to vibe with them as well, but my intuition picks up on that pretty quickly, attraction is either there or its not. I love women that are very sweet, very kind, loving and warm, i can instantly pick it up in your demeanour
Whats the answer tho?
I'd say id friendzone you if your sexually shy, if im making moves on you and your body language is all closed like you won't let me touch you , im moving on, im autistic myself and I've dated other autistic women that would freak if i wanted to escalate things, im not judging but it just never worked, im a highly sexual guy and want an adult and intimate relationship, i need intimacy from a woman.
When I'm in a relationship already, any other woman I get to know can only ever be friends.
However, men do not have a genuine friendzone. When a woman puts a man in her friendzone it means he is so familiar, nice and harmless to her that she cannot desire him as a man anymore. He has become like a brother to her in a way.
For a man the same does not typically happen. We do not mind if the woman is very familiar to us and does not seem the slightest bit dangerous (though she may well be). She will still retain her attractiveness. Only my actual sister is like a sister to me.
1. Lack of attraction to her
2. Bad personality (bitchy, rude, abusive, no sexual interest, no willingness to do anything fun/interesting, etc...)
3. Bad hygiene
4. Too much baggage/drama
5. Gross sexual history (but this is usually apparent in 2 though 4, even if a guy knows nothing about her history)
The kind of girls I used to put in the friends only category, personally, were the cool ones that were very unattractive. Easy to be friends with them for a bunch of reasons.
The kinds of girls I used to want to convert to relationships (married now) were ones that didn't hit the criteria I mentioned above. My wife was a solid match.
The last question is hard to understand.
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If she has a past story with one of my friends she is insta friendzoned.
If she has like big ideals that are against my values I wouldn't date her for sure.
If she is ugly but funny I wouldn't feel atracted to her and I would friendzone her... but at the end I dont have big standarts of pretty levels so it would be few girls lol...
But better to say the description of who I would have a date with: a normal girl, who may differ in opinions with me but not very distant, good and educated. I prefer to say that things attract me to what does not attract me. I don't want an incredibly pretty girl but someone normal who attracts me not only for her appearance but for her way of being :D
Attractiveness if i encounter an stunning women i do have change my behavior.
values compatibility if i learn a woman has similar or symbiotic values i will be open for relationship discussion but won't force it.
Either way i usually assume women don't find me interesting. So if there is no social cues i assume she has other thinks than relationships on mind and so should i.
Overly emotional ones. Every time, no matter how attractive they are. If I know that getting intimate with you is going to be a whole can of worms, I'm going to start talking about politics around her more.
Actually, that's how I started dating this really crazy girl... Usually it works out, just not that time.
Id like a storytime about that crazy girl
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It would be hard to friendzone a woman who I was really physically attracted to. I am not saying that is the only thing that matters in a partner, but the only women I have ever friendzoned are ones I am not really attracted to physically. So when it comes to the friendzone, the one thing the women I have friendzoned have in common is that I have no significant physical attraction to them.
On what depends if you are phisically attracted to them or not
That is a difficult question to answer. There is no exact description of what I find physically attractive. And it is also affected by more than just the physical body. Her mind also has something to do with my physical attraction. I cannot answer this question with words. I have to be near a woman to know if I find her physically attractive or not. Even a picture is not enough although it does tell me enough to know if I want to know more about her.
Friendzone is generally used by women, for men the equivalent is friends with benefits (friends with benefits). This is because a man would have sex with a woman if she is available and above a threshold in attractiveness which isn't too high to begin with. In both cases, the objective is not to give romantic commitment. The reasons for that may be the girl has displayed traits contrary to a good partner; disloyalty, selfish, promiscuity, etc.
1. I'm just not attracted to her.
OR
2. I am attracted to her, but there's something else about her (usually personality) that I just don't like.
OR
3. I just don't feel like we have anything in common. We come from two different worlds.
Me and my boyfriend are from different words
Im ex law student and geek
He is ex drug dealer, beem to jail twice for women beating (false accusation)
Oh, my goodness. Please be careful, hon.
I can be physically attracted to a girl and like her personality too even, but not want to date her. The last required piece of the puzzle is having chemistry. I don't mean the friend type, but the one you feel for someone you connect with.
I’ve never “friend-zoned” a woman before - at least not in the way girls do this to guys. I’ve never decided in advance that a girl in particular is someone I will never date in a million years because there is a possibility that I would want to date her.
High maintenance
Ones that think they bring more to the table than they do
Boring in bed
Loves gossip/drama
No physical activity
1. She has dated a close friend or relative.
2. We get along but we have different values.
3. She has a history of having trouble with or making negative comments about men.
4. I see her as a sister or one of the bros.
5. She broadcast everything on social media and over the phone.
6. She is shown to have narrow minded beliefs and no intent to change them.
7. I'm always right and you're wrong personality.
It's happened rarely. The women were perfectly nice, but not for me for one reason or another. I'm not religious and have no interest in dating believers, whether it's religious faith or just general magic.
Personal opinion : Generally I categorize females in my life into 2 categories Precious and non precious
Precious girls are women who are great as a person someone i can trust that i can be comfortable with girls that i want in my life it's the line between female coworker/ neighbour and Female Friend but mind u just because she's precious and evn though they're very rare doesn't mean that I'll be attracted to her so that's my friendzone.
Incompatible beliefs. I have a friend who I found out doesn’t really believe in monogamy. For me, that’s the entire purpose of a relationship, so any sexual attraction I felt toward her vanished immediately.
There are literally only two reasons that a man would ever friendzone a girl:
1) She's not attractive enough to want to bang
2) She has some past history with a friend or someone else which would be a problem if you did bang her, so despite being attractive enough to bang she still goes in the zone.
That's pretty much it. Any other reason you hear is just someone trying to avoid saying the reason is 1 above (which is by FAR the most common reason).
According to my husband, men who aren't attracted to a female friend who is attracted to them get friend-zoned to avert further disappointment on the woman's part.
Depends but I like I arlys ick idea.
Kinda real and for some people just takes one thing.
For others you love them even if they do an icky thing. But that is in a relationship!
Well if a girl is ugly or a ho then a guy is likely to friendzone her or ignore her totally. :)
Being married. When i was single there was no friend zone. I would say she was my friend, but if she ever wanted to i would have slept with her.
I don't friend zone. I either want to associate with you, or I don't, and it's based solely on the capability to trust. From the U. S? I don't. Elsewhere? I do. It's that simple.
I'm just not attracted to her or she has a past that excludes her from being a romantic prospect.
the list can be endless but basically anything thats not date material
that all depends on the specific guy and what they are willing to date
You
Tell me your criteria
id rather not waste my time doing so, barely anyone relates to it so its not really a common criteria for you to use as a guide in your situation
His criteria is probably any girl, who doesn't like an Instagram model/supermodel (be skinny, with perfect/flawless skin, big lips, a small button, nose, small face, light eyes, pale skin, curly hair)
why are you creating assumptions, why you here anyways? 😂
I'm not creating assumptions, but most guys on this site are like this..
But you could be an exception. Never mind lol 🤷♀️
mhm okay
2 things.
1: she's too much of a self-centered bimbo
2: she's too ugly for my personal taste.
excuse my choice of words. i'm not interested in politically correct language.
in the end I'm choosing the person who will be my support for the rest of my life, every girl is a friend until I can truly see someone who can take that role.
It doesn't work like that for men; our categories are fuck-zone (recreational use only) and relationship material.
@DextroShade Exactly.
Lol at that term recreational use only. Nice one
Friends:
Almost nothing except fun personality, girls are quite useless in terms of problem solving and advice
Marriage:
Feminine, young, calm
They tend to create more problems then give advice.
You don't really expect men to have a logical answer to this, do you?
Lol at you going anonymous to post something sexist. Women from your generation have no logic whatsoever. Im guessing you are just bitter over being rejected.
In my mind, it's only if they're not attracted to her at all or if they're already taken.
if they have boyfriend i still meet in friendzone, easy peezee.
Someone that you absolutely know for sure that you never want to bang. Because let's be honest girls just want money and guys just want to fuck everything.
since you asked...
not good enough... and that's fine because if someone doesn't loke me i don't like them too.
If she has dealbreakers but has a good personality and shared interests
If I am not physically attracted to them but they have a wonderful personality or if i am taken already or if i am interested in someone and working on seeing if that would work out the other girls get friend zoned.
used to be a lot of criteria to wade through. now it is just existing puts all women in my friendzone at best.
I just reject them if I’m not into them. Friendzone only applies to people who just wanna sleep with you
I think some guys including myself just want a friend who is a girl. Obviously I love and want sex but a friendship is also wonderful
Nothing. If I don't end up liking her in at least a sexual way, I break contact. With notice of course.
The only time I dont get more than friends vibes from a guy he is usually in a relationship already.
I've got several reasons why I can't type out any of them tbh lol
I go beyond friendzoning, but i reject her for having kids or hitting the wall.
High maintenance
High body count
Not good looking
Simple, she will do everything with that is not sexual. Also she could be married to some one you like a lot and value.
Appearance. They’d never friendzone an attractive woman. And its the same answer for all the other questions.
Attraction just kind of a hassle if they want a detailed reason why without hurting feelings.
Soon as you realize there's no such thing as the "friendzone", the better
I don't know or understand what (friendzone) is?
If I like her personality but don't find her attractive then its only friends.
a woman thats more vauable as a friend them anything else
If she has any of the followings, she will be moved to "freindzone"...
1- flat ass
2- bad breath
3- large feet
4- facial hair
5- loud
Lack of sexual potential. And/or psychological issues.
Generally I friend zone a woman if I’m not physically attracted to her and/or she acts like my sister.
If she's unattractive, but still a nice person.
I have done it a long time ago I was in love and didn’t anyone else so I screwed up
I don't do that. Women make terrible friends
Would have to agree.
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