Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
also how many of these do you fit, just for fun lmao. i fit five of these (itās apparently hot to this weirdo that i have anemia, i guess)
I fit 9, I never understood why many men like women and many don't educate themselves about women simply assume they understand what a human woman is and wants.
If they did I would hope they'd have more realistic standards. Even so I always felt like standards in general are like a list of expectations that don't matter when you fall in love and have a deep connection with someone who doesn't relate to a "grocery list" of the mind. :D
When I thought of what I wanted to of my partner all I wanted was someone to love and be loved in return with true respect, loyalty, desire, being one for the other. Having each other's backs. Nothing more nothing less.
what is love?
Hhhhhhttps://reallove. com/what-is-real-love/
Love is beautiful, selfless, understanding, open, honest, wanting to see your partner prevail, wanting them to be happy even if that means without you, loving who they are flaws and all, understanding the darkness without judgment. Love is unconditional and how it leaves you feeling is pure even when things go wrong. Love forgives and lets go.
As humans we complicate love, its not love is complicated, nor love hurts. Its our perceptions and egos that pull us to pain. It's the trauma of experience that closes our hearts to love. Love can't control how we hurt each other nor our flaws that can affect our actions to work against love.
Love doesn't betray people people betray thier love and hearts.
Figured I'd share both points of the perception of love. The good and the bad.
@rebeliouse I commented above to your question.
Wtf has low iron levels? Is his plan to beat her bloody and hope she doesn't recover? That's my only guess on that one.
I only fit 3 of these. Low body count, can cook/clean and no trauma.
Would never get with a man that demanded this crazy of shit from me. Fuck that!
Why do you pay attention to these posts? I don't even notice things as absurd as this. Though I see just one of the things listed exactly saying what @D_Bone_Steak said.
Why? No clue. Idiot comes to mind as well as out of touch and unrealistic.
On the plus side he's done himself the favor of crossing himself off your list.
Opinion
34Opinion
People with lists are unrealistic when they have faults and shortcomings themselves... For example height, an inch or 2 is a going to make a difference? Size of breasts? I know a woman who has facial scars ( a dog attacked her when she was a child) on her face I am like so what she's nice. People ditch your lists or end up alone.
... Do women routinely test their PH levels? Is this some weird new thing young people are doing; playing around with litmus paper? Do they yell "By the power of hydrogen!" before they do it, with no understanding as to why, since even their oldest siblings wouldn't be familiar with He-Man?
And why would you want a woman with low iron levels? Is a perpetually exhausted woman with heart palpitations and no sex drive appealing, somehow?
That list is hilarious. Can you imagine how many women respond to that?
its rather hilarious for people who have and post these laundry lists of wants and desires- that they do not hardly ever have the same to offer in return, smh though he may very well also have low iron levels to offer a girl, since he seems to be lacking proper oxygen to his brain.
I don't really care too much about it, since it has nothing to do with me. Also, they probably don't date much and are trying to make up for it. Thankfully, most guys aren't like this.
I think the only ones I agree with are the nagging and cooking/cleaning, but it'd go both ways. No one likes those who complain all the time and adults need to know how to cook/clean.
@inhua I forgot about "cisgender woman" because anything initially that says "cis" my brain automatically just starts ignoring š
Anyway, the other shit on the list is just stuff I do not require in a relationship. I really don't mind at all if my partner is overweight, but other's allowed to not want it. For that being a requirement to be reasonable I believe depends on both of your age's, how long you've dated, the cause, and how serious of an issue it is.
It is okay to change in a relationship for someone such as losing/gaining weight, but ideally it shouldn't be a hard set requirement in a relationship after a certain age. That's just my opinion anyway. There are a few things on that list that I don't see as unreasonable/unrealistic, but a lot of them are.
besides the pH and iron levels thing, the rest aren't really that unrealistic though.
is it really that unrealistic for a woman not to be a feminist who can also cook and clean and is against abortion? a lot of these are within her control. I can understand height, boob size and butt size being outside of her control but the other factors are mostly actions and beliefs that can be controlled
LOL. Whoever posted that is an ass and is unlikely to find a woman that both satisfies his list and is willing to date him. No idea why he listed "low iron levels" and "Balanced pH levels"
I fit for 10 of them. If he ever finds someone who checks off everything on the list I will be surprised. Just to address this, itās his preference. He can be as picky as he wants but it doesnāt mean that he will ever find someone who fits what heās looking for. Just like Iāve seen women have unrealistic standards for men itās not surprising that men do the same thing.
I have seen that happen many times on here. They have a list of standards a mile long, but when women have some standards, they have a big whine over it.
Oh my fucking god. Iāve seen this guy on TikTok during his live. Heās a fucking asshole. I remember he said the reason why he wants a woman to have low iron is so she doesnāt cheat. And I was, āDude! We all fucking need iron to function.ā I donāt know if heās serious or just doing it for shits and giggles.
I have a friend that had a list of requirements. She had to go to a specific kind of college, drive a certain kind of car, live in a certain town etc. 25 years later and he is still single.
Those are men to stay away from 😁and their opinions shouldn't matter lol everyone lives by their own standards but some men and women can be redickulous
for the same reasons women do it
https://www.youtube.com/embed/T3XkgbOFyJUhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/kSq4RPWfrz8Would you mind posting the links below, can't view them on your comment. :)
šš»āāļø Thanks
Women have their own list of requirements generally more unreasonable than this list lol.
Why would someone want another person with low iron levels? I don't really care what your iron levels are; but given the choice I would choose someone who has adequate or higher iron levels.
Because they think their McDonald's working ass is somehow a "high value male". Hypocrisy.
some mid guys think that only women have to be perfect and hot but not men, so they get triggered when they get the same medicine served to them
i fit like 8 of these
On this list only, "no stretch marks" is out of women's control. Usually women expect things from men which are out of their control or limited. For example cannot every men be in the top 10% of something, while the amount of round asses attainable on the planet is limitless. Every single woman could have one.
women get mad when men show their standards and men get mad when women show their standards. it's nothing but hurt ego that comes from a feeling of inadequacy. like if someone reacts butthurt, you know they don't match that standard. there's really no point to even be a part of a discussion cause it's all subjective opinion anyway. it doesn
t matter either way.
Remember when ross made a list of "standards" she wanted or whatever it was when he was trying to decide between rachel and I believe it was julie. He says at the end "yeah, it's rachel". The point was, it doesn't matter. It was ALWAYS her
@Sasha0426 That's my point, standards, comparisons, he knew it was ALWAYS rachel
by the way, why do you need to let us know you're not only straight, but you also "identify as what you were born as"
I don't tell you im straight and I'm a guy and identify as one. So why do you feel the need to tell us what you are. I only told you in this sentence, to put an example. Why is it such a thing?
@Sasha0426 nope. it was def. for this one
@Sasha0426 she just doesn't like my answer, so she went with the biased one
This guy is someone women need to stay well away from. Does he not even realise how dangerous low iron levels can be.
Newsflash most guys don't make "lists" Yeah they have preferences but no one sticks exactly to a rigid list like this unless they are getting no play.
The "Hip to waist ratio of 0.7" has me in stitches 🤣🤣🤣 He would have to carry a tape measurer everywhere he goes.
Wow, that's quite a stupid list. Balanced pH levels? What does that even mean?
Well unbalanced PH level can lead to vagina smell
@WhiteBoyChill And eating the wrong types of food can lead to flatulence. So what? When you're with someone special you accept the good with the bad, and never expect perfection, because no one is.
If you fail to have a balanced ph, you fail to have basic hygiene. Thatās pretty non-negotiable for me
I mean come on, these are a bunch of desirable traits (most of the list, some are wtf) finding someone who meets all this is too picky though. Love isnāt about checking every box on a list. If your heartās aflutter when you look into her eyes, there is something there, thatās all ima say
I also have anemia of iron.. i have to take supplements
Everyone can have standards, just don't be mad when not everyone meets them. Isn't that the point of having standards in the first place? Why would you be upset that your tool is doing exactly what it's supposed to do?
I don´t think those guys get mad because women have standards I rather say they get mad because they don´t fit those standards.
Guys are more visual than women. I think guys should not have any issues with a woman puttng "not a feminist" as one of her standards.
Most of these standards seems fair. The use of the word cisgender is suspicious. Its a slur use by sjws. And low body count should have been no body count. He should go for someone who is not a virgin.
Maybe he should have added Not over 25 years old.
I agree with most of this list, even though I can date a tomboy but I don't want to date a ho.
I fit in 7 of them which is being a cisgender woman, not overweight, against abortion, low body count, not a femenist and has a dress size 12.
Some of these are ridiculous though like low iron levels, no stretch marks, losing weight after pregnancy (I'm assuming he's talking about post-pregnancy bellies that stick out which aren't fat but is just the uterus being stretched. Also loose skin)
It's because they want women to be perfect. They want a woman who doesn't exist.
I only fit 4 Lol
Because very few people like hearing that they don't deserve what they want.
I absolutely 100% stand by that man. That is pretty spot on what a high quality man should want.
@KrakenAttackin She finds that stuff repulsive, yet considers herself āhousewifeā material
That man is an absolute f*cking genius that deserves a high-five
I mean, I meet a lot of women's standards already so go wild. LMFAO.
Sounds delusional I mean I agree with the no SJW leftist women stuff, never would Date any girl who votes dem & Is a feminist.
I would hit 7. But I wouldnāt have dated a guy with a list like that. Seems way beyond shallow to me.
Some of those items are weird or too picky, but many are just redundant; over half the items on that list could be condensed into "don't be fat, don't be a hoe, don't be a bitch"
Why do some women post long lists of standards but then get mad when men have standards too?
Both men and women do this. It's not a gendered thing.
That woman is a lot easier to find than a guy who is 6', making 6 figures and has a 6 pack. If you want standards then have standards.
Too much social media ig. They might have also perceived you as a one upper
Seems reasonable. Though low iron?
Losing weight after pregnancy happens naturally
Yeah, "is a cisgender woman" is a really high bar. Compare these to those of women.
What's funny is that's a sarcastic response list to the high standards women have so a lot of men after a while just play that game too
That list is bullshit
what the hell is low iron levels about lol
@Sasha0426 how does low iron levels stop her cheeting?
those aren't my standards and those are not even hard to do
That post is 100% definitely a joke. When women post their standards, they aren't joking.
@Sasha0426 Women can absolutely joke. It's just that they aren't usually making a joke when they post stuff like this because they'll go ahead and actually look for their "joke" lists.
@Sasha0426 I just told you; it's all about who actually goes to look for their list. No man will ever reject a woman for not meeting something on that list. Women, on the other hand, come up with laundry lists of small things to reject men for constantly.
@Sasha0426 Obviously no generalization is always true, but in general, I'm pretty sure, yeah. Especially when this person's list is full of stuff that there's no way he could ever know about someone and is super nit-picky. When it comes to people posting lists online; a man posting a long list is a joke, a woman posting a long list is self snitching. As for what you're looking for; I have no idea. I don't know anything about you.
@Sasha0426 Joking, obviously, but that's also the kind of stuff on this person's list. It's the same kind of fanciful stuff. That's how I know it's a joke. I mean; "she keeps her pH balanced" and "loses pregnancy weight?" How the hell would anyone ever know that about a woman without already having gotten extremely close with her? In order to know if a woman is worth dating, I need to impregnate her and watch her carry my child to term; it's ridiculous.
It's because they are clowns 🤡
Wtf is kegals?
cause people dumb
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions