It sounds like you're going to do it regardless. I'd say to trust your instincts on that one, if someone doesn't say what they mean, and do what they say, generally they aren't worth your time.
Sounds like you're being your best you and trying to tie down Chad from being a friends with benefits though. It sounds like a futile effort, but do what you're going to do anyway, just bear in mind that he's under no pressure to give you anything.
He gets you to come over whenever he texts regardless... so what exactly would change for him? If anything I'd expect that there would be more expectations from you.
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Don't do anything. Not because of any red flag but because you're hesitant. Stay friends for now. Sounds like you're not hinting for a boyfriend and you guys get along well. So the change is going to be a name for your relationship and sex. So, stay friends. Either you're going to get to the point where you don't feel hesitant and stress or that feeling won't go away. While it exists, honor it.
if you are hesitating you already know the answer. your intuition is telling you not to proceed further then friends
Trust your intuition. Stay friends but don’t be more than friends, at least for now.
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You don't mention if you're attracted to him or not. It's important. If you're not, definitely don't get involved as a girlfriend. Only you can decide if you think he'd make a good friend or even boyfriend. If it's no, then cut loose from him.
if you think you have a chance, you shouldn't give up before giving it a shot
sounds like a good idea. cause you already know him
no such thing as "just friends", you're only proving it
Listen it depends on how attractive you are. Because a guy can never have a female friend that's attractive unless he's gay.
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