It's literally a guy who pays for a girl's nude photos and does not even fuck her... Not someone who is just saying a girl is beautiful or the most beautiful in HIS opinion LOL.
That's not what "simp" means. Your definition is WAY too restrictive.
According to Wikipedia: "Simp is an internet slang term describing someone who shows excessive sympathy and attention toward another person, typically someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings, in pursuit of affection or a sexual relationship."
Urban Dictionary’s top definition of a simp is “someone who does way too much for a person they like.”
Neither of these REQUIRE nude photos to be in the equation.
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Actually a simp watches his girl get fucked and isn't allowed to jerk off. Then usually eats the cum out of her pussy. I make sure to use that insult sparingly..
That’s too specific. A simp is a man that does over the top things for a woman that would never give him that same energy back or give him anything in similar exchange. That goes beyond just a man giving a woman money in exchange for nudes. I would consider a man that eats women out but doesn’t expect sex in exchange a simp also.
Any guy that agrees with a female on here and not a guy is called a wimp🙄 or when first was on here, they’d call em white knights
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The meaning of the term has changed a lot, I guess.
But it originally started out as one of those words that are used to describe a certain kind of man, that is as old as times.
A pretty famous German author, called Erich Kästner, wrote a poem (in the 30s I think), about so-called "carers", him being undoubtedly one of them.
About how they always treat women like queens, do things for and with them, put them on a pedestal, desire them, but never actually get them. The men who get them are the ones who rip them off their pedestal every once in a while.
I think that's what "simp" originally refers to. Guys who are too sympathetic in their demeanor towards women their like, and as a result aren't perceived as men. They show themselves to be too submissive and with too little initiative, however true that might actually be.
I don't think it's impossible for guys like that to get a girl, but it would require to girl to take a risk. The risk of finding out of he turns out to be more masculine than he seems. Or if he becomes so through her affection.
But most girls probably prefer taking the option that seems less risky in the short term. Although there are some other obvious risks attached to the other kind of dude. Which often aren't that obvious to the girls who pick them.I think a simp is someone who overvalues a woman by virtue of her simply being a woman, even when she displays bad and narcissistic behaviour.
There's lots of simping on this site. Vaguely above average women and the men make our like it's the Greek sirens tempting 'em to their death!
Also, ain't no attractive girl dating a simp. So while you'll happily take their compliments, otherwise you will let them rot!
no, a simp is someone who incentivizes and defends women's bad behavior at the cost his own dignity and tries to shame other men into doing the same
A simp is a guy who compliment women and stay at their side just to try to impress her or make her feel atracted to him. They dont have dignity and dont care if a woman takes advantage of him.
There are simps in this website? Yeah.
They are common? I think they are not.
In this website there are a lot of types of people, weirdos, simps, perverts, misoginist, misandrist... also lots of good and kind people who act like normal persons and who are here to provide with real and good questions/opinions.
Are all men who take the side of a woman simps? Hell nah, but its obvious that here there are some of them for sure.
That word is seriously over use without people knowing what it actually meant at least originally.
As you said it's a man that bends over backwards typically financially for a woman in hopes of getting sex or a relationship but it doesn't happen for him.
people are too lazy to think, so they just use labels or insults that make no sense instead of properly expressing their feelings of disagreement.
I did not even know what a simp was until I went on this site. I was called a simp because I think that guys should never hit a woman. Go figure.
A simp is a guy who’s okay with an unequal exchange of value.
If you treat a girl like a queen, but she also bery highly values you, you aren’t a simp.
If you’re paying a girl who’s live streaming in hopes for her attention, you’re a simp.
If you say an average woman is a 10 you are a simp. people preferences differ but not by that many points. No one is a 10 because that is flawless and perfect. So the guy is lying to get woman attention, which is simp behavior because it feeds their delusions and attention craving.
Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy... S. I. M. P.
It's just your average acronym. K. I. S. S. - (Keep It Simple Stupid) is my favorite acronym.
I imagine it's getting used in ways where it is simply out of place by posers that don't really know the meaning of it... so, I relate to your frustration with the use of it in that regard.A simp is a man who gives attention, time and money to a woman who gives nothing in return
women enable simping by stringing them along with the idea of a relationship but a woman of character doesn’t accept gifts from men they don’t like
also it’s not simping to call a woman beautiful
it’s so cringe tho
All the name-calling comes from men unable to get a date. Instead of figuring out how to improve their social skills, they blame others The men who are successfully dating are either "Chads", with advantages they can never have, or "simps" giving way more than they are getting.
Your definition of "every guy" is a bit exaggerated... and there are loads of trolls on this site. Most derogatory words you see flying around are from trolls and people replying to trolls.
Probably because in many cases, they're correct in their assessment. I thoroughly enjoy complimenting and praising the beautiful women on here, even though I know damn well that I'm not even remotely close to being worthy of even kissing their feet.
From Urban Dictionary:
It is when a male is overly submissive to a female and gains nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel ashamed when seeing them.
Simp initially just meant: Someone that compliments girls in the hope of getting something out of it, but clearly not going to get it.
Nothing to do with buying nudes.I got called one on here just defending the institution of marriage. I figure it's like being called a racist or transphobe these days. It doesn't mean anything given how much it's overused.
A simp is also a man that thinks women especially the women he's interested in can do no wrong and will defend her at all cost. Simps are rarely ever respected by the women they're chasing but they'll continue doing it in hopes she'll value him some day
everyone has their own definition of a simp, according to some, behaving like a gentleman is also a simp, we are suppose to treat everyone with respect, i just dont see their argument
It's a person who does way too much for a person they like.
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