Why he thinks no one will ever be interested in him again?

[Anonymous]

I have older brother in early 20s. He was never the type who would chase girls and always okay being single. He had one relationship like 5 years ago. Like 10 months ago he was seeing one girl he really liked. She liked him too and was crushing on him for a long time. It looked like they will be official any time soon but she ended things between them. It really hurt him. I told him that he will find someone he deserves but he always says something like who would be interested in me, if she rejected me the rest will too and stuff. I understand it is hard one to swallow but there were many girls who were interested in him especially when he was younger. But he looks like he gave up.

[inhua]

it's dictated by the Principle of Pre-selection where one woman's thoughts and opinions can influence other woman's thoughts and opinions therefore translating the same message

for example if a woman makes it known that she thinks a certain man is a creep, chances are other women will believe that certain man is a creep too even without proof

in the case of your brother, he got dumped and therefore other women will think there's something wrong with him because otherwise there's no reason for him to get dumped

[Anonymous]

Its normal for both guys and girls to think like that after a breakup. Be concerned if it goes on for a long time.

[provokeesmokee]

He doesn't seem like a very mentally resilient man, even before the relationship.

He needs therapy but someone like that is likely not to seek it out without outside support and prodding.

[riverrat3]

Lost his self-esteem