Why would guy say to his ex that he broke things off ”may god bless you?

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand

[jdool75]

I see a couple or reasons a guy is like that? First of all it feels great the sexual attention and to only focus on consuming although it is not the real idea of sex as the crown of intimacy
Secondly it is safe, guys in general do not easily talk about sex and maybe afraid o doing something wrong. Being pleasured is safe and you do not have to talk about while you consume that great feeling.

[Asker]

What are you talking about?

[Anonymous]

Just an awkward way to attempt to end things on a friendlier note and let you know he’s not mad, I think. Or a passive aggressive way to awkwardly let you know he’s mad. You know the circumstances and the person, so you can probably tell the difference better than us.

[Alli39]

Could be passive agressive, could just be him trying to be polite/avoid bad blood. Depends on the dude, but doesn't really affect the outcome.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe he’s a Christian and wants her to know that he wishes her well

[Zatsuma]

He was politely signing off as he had lack of interest of pursuing any further relationship with them.

[ProbablyClueless]

He doesn't want her to feel like he has some on-going animosity for her.

Not every relationship needs to end in scorched earth.

[spartan55]

Nothing to understand. Don't let it short circuit you.

[Mangospacho]

In the middle of the breakup, you must’ve done something that sounded like a sneeze or someone nearby must’ve sneezed. If that’s not it then I am out of ideas why.

[Anonymous]

He's trying to make peace. No hard feelings and he has moved on. But he's a good person, he wishes good and not bad for you.

[MementoMori777]

cause he wants god to bless you

[Asker]

Why since he dumped me?

[MementoMori777]

just cause he doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean he doesn't want good things to happen to you or for you

[Asker]

So he cares about me and or has feelings for me?

[MementoMori777]

i wouldn't say all that, at the least he cares about you as another fellow being

[Asker]

Why didn’t he want to tell me what exact future life goals didn’t align?

After our first date he said that it was very nice to get ti know me but he noticed after our date that our future goals don’t align and for that reasob we shouldn’t continue to date.

When I asked what plans didn’t align he said just in general level they’re not align.

[MementoMori777]

well then it seems like the answer is pretty clear, i think you should move on anon and find someone else to date, and may god bless you with that 🤣

[Asker]

You didn’t answer my question

[MementoMori777]

cause I don't know the damn answer to your question 😂

you are asking the wrong guy lol

[Asker]

When he said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and a very nice person” it felt like he thought me to be pathetic and desperate for a man. Do you agree?

[MementoMori777]

agree with what, that you'll meet the right person or that you think that he thought you were pathetic or whatever?

[Asker]

The latter part

[MementoMori777]

what latter bro 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

His parents raised him right. He made his peace and moved on that doesn't mean he wants bad for you. He communicated why he wasn't interested. That's a mature thing on his part. Be happy you met a mature guy and wish him well and move on.

[MementoMori777]

crumble you had me trippin for a sec, i didn't know what question i was at for a second and went like "whats going on 🙃" ha

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Hahah it happens

[Starlove4]

He basically saying peace out 😂

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why do you post this every week?

[In_Trance]

why didn't you ask him for clarification?

[Asker]

It was part of a long paragraph where he ended things with me

[In_Trance]

paragraph?

[Asker]

Long text

[In_Trance]

jesus... move on

[BLP11520]

Strange comment to make I can’t figure it out

[Asker]

After our first date he said that it was very nice to get ti know me but he noticed after our date that our future goals don’t align and for that reasob we shouldn’t continue to date.

When I asked what plans didn’t align he said just in general level they’re not align.

Why didn’t he want to tell me what exact future life goals didn’t align?

[BLP11520]

Seems odd?

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[BLP11520]

Pretty quick to judge you

[BLP11520]

He in some kind of hurry?

[BLP11520]

You will meet someone better

[Asker]

by the way we’re both muslims. He’s in his early 30’s. Earlier when we were texting before the date he asked how many kids I would like to have. He said he wants a big family

[Asker]

During the date he asked if I would work or stay at home when I have kids. I told him when they’re older I would go back to work. I did also say that I want to further my studies and get better job. Maybe he got the impression I don’t want to have kids soon?

[BLP11520]

Oh family size

[BLP11520]

Well your faith is the same

[BLP11520]

Mixed faiths don’t work

[BLP11520]

I tell people often there is not enough love and understanding in the world

[BLP11520]

Tolerance for others

[Asker]

Do you think our goals were really that different?

[Asker]

Why did he ask me that question would I work or stay at home when I have kids?

[BLP11520]

Probably yes

[Asker]

Why did he ask me that question would I work or stay at home when I have kids?

[BLP11520]

Yeah

[Asker]

Why would he ask me that during the first date?

[OddBeMe]

Jesus freak