She’s kind and sweet. She blushes around me a lot and she’s very happy to see me. We are close. My friends say she likes me but I fluctuate between liking her and hating her. Right now I want to ghost her. I’m really interwoven in her social network so it would be difficult to ghost her now. I’ve ghosted her before when I wasn’t interwoven but I added her again and she accepted. Why though? Why do I want to ghost her? It’s just her I want to do this to
She is literally like my dream woman and I want to do this to her what the
She’s so kind and so sweet and I just want to ghost her. What the f? I’ve also had fights with her on purpose to try push her away but she keeps staying around. One time she was crying and she was about to leave me for good but I didn’t want her to leave so we patched things up but think of it - I actively wanted to push her away and I acted in a way which would have done that result but then when it almost happened I stopped it so to speak
If I could marry her - I would
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You recognize that you’re self sabotaging with this behaviour which is good but only you really know why you feel that way. You got to ask yourself in those moments what triggered you to feel like that. Fear of emotional intimacy? Abandonment wounds (feeling the need to leave before they have the option to leave you but also wanting them to chase you)? Avoidant attachment style? Whatever the reason is you need to get to the root of what causes you to feel that way and work through it, if not stop stringing her along for your mind games
Yeah maybe it’s deep down I feel like I’m not good enough for her. Women have told me I’m handsome and she has too but I just don’t want to hear it. I dunno
Then do her and yourself a favor and ghost her instead of waiting time🙂
*wasting