Im literally only 6 weeks pregnant and go to an appointment once every two weeks and he just not had the audacity to say its tough when I'm gone. First of all this guy is 2HOURS i can"t even make up how shocked i am. He is actually 2 hours and 40 minutes late to work every single day. Then he doesn't even answer any calls.
We work in a busy health insurance call center and i have seen my supervisor catch him not answering calls and my other colleagues as well have said something. He literally sits in research or after call work for 6 minutes on his phone. And purposefully does not answer calls.
On too of that, dude was working this shift alone for months before i even started working here I've only been here for 6 months... not only did he have the nerve to say im upsetting him but he also called me "Ms. Eazy bake oven".. should i snitch? he's so weird, i sadly sit right next to him and close with him. He like buds into my business and tries buying me things i dont ask for... like im his little work girlfriend its weird...
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Harassment: aggressive pressure or intimidation. I wouldn’t say this is that lol he’s annoying at best. Obviously I wasn’t there to see the encounter, or hear his tone when he said this, but it doesn’t sound like he meant that in a harmful way. The guy just seems lazy, so it’s no surprise he finds it’s tough when he doesn’t have someone pulling his weight.
Also, is he gay? I used to hang with a group of people, when one of my female friends got pregnant, our gay friend called her an easy bake oven, but he meant like she had a bun in the oven. That’s the only time I’ve ever heard that specific phrase though lol
Girl I don't know lol all i know is i laugh at everything but this wasn't funny lol. I just never had a coworker complain about something they aren't dealing with lol that was just weird to me. He said it in a way where he was hoping or trying to persuade me to say, "yeah i can stop going to appointments for you." Lol never gonna happen
I’m sure he would love that! Then he could keep on with his lazy ways lol I had a coworker like that before and it’s so annoying. To be honest he’s probably tone deaf, not realizing that things he says just come off the wrong way. But you can’t fault him too much for it if you don’t say anything, so maybe you could find a comfortable way to set some boundaries. I know you’d like to tread lightly since you work next to him, but just remember you are allowed to stand up for yourself and you are not responsible for how he receives it.
Thats true thanks for the support lol and yeah right?
It is none of his business. Talk to ur boss about him or go to HR if u have one.