Why do more men have commitment issues when it's the woman who has to basically destroy her body & give up her life for her family and having a baby?

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It's just something I noticed online. Or is that just the MGTOW and INCELS being cruel and mean to women and spreading viral hate against women like that?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think it’s cause men who get things without real sacrifice and effort, do not appreciate it as much as the woman who sacrifices to get what she wants and when you don’t appreciate something, you don’t value it or stay loyal to it.

LostandFound__x · Accepted Answer

Some men don’t have commitment issues and some women have commitment issues! Shouldn’t be generalising like that. We’re all humans and some of us have these issues for all sorts of reasons.

Anonymous · Answer

Here’s an honest answer from someone who was taught to treat women w respect, to open doors for them, to help them, etc, etc. Because I know women love honesty so much. I’m tired of doing that shit. Not like being tired from going to work, but just tired of the way a lot of women these days treat men. Now before someone says you’re just just mad cause you can’t get women, or whatever their justification is to make them feel better about my answer being wrong in their eyes, I am w someone. Have been for 15 years. A lot of women today, especially younger ones, bring nothing to a relationship. Many of them have this attitude of what can you do for me. Many of them have this attitude I don’t need a man. Strong independent women as they say. Which honestly is what we call being an “adult,” taking care of yourself financially. It’s not like they’re doing something special that men haven’t been doing for years. Imagine men calling themselves strong, independent men for taking care of their own financial obligations. That’s ridiculous. It seems as though a lot of women live in this fantasy world. They tell each other their perfect 10s, stay the same, don’t ever change for some man. But than reality hits when men aren’t asking them out. Like wtf is wrong w all these men. All my friends told me I’m a 10, I’m perfect, I’m a catch, etc. So why aren’t men asking me out? Women do a big disservice to other women. Men know that if you’re overweight, a slob, a POS, he knows chances aren’t he isn’t going to meet women. Men don’t go tell each other, bro you’re a 10, stay the way you are, if she doesn’t like you it’s her fault. No we tell the dude, bro you need to cut some weight if you want a chance to be w her. Women seem to tell each other all these lies to make themselves feel better rather than accepting the truth. I think a lot of men feel the way I do, but the problem is they’re afraid to say it in fear of being labeled misogynistic, in fear of not meeting women, etc. The only reason why women are allowed to say a lot of the crazy shit they do is because men want to get laid. If sex wasn’t an issue w men as far as us always desiring it, there’s no way a lot of women would be able to act the way they do. But I think since more men are speaking out about this, more men are opening up. Men have always just been taught to shut up, do what you need to do whether you like it or not. Women don’t need to destroy their bodies or lives, that’s a choice they make. I spent 10 years in the military, torn down by that physically. That was a choice I made. We usually just don’t complain about a lot of the things we’re going through in life the way women do. Most of the time it’s because our concerns are dismissed. Because if you complain you’re not a man, you’re a whiny little bitch. To me society sees men as expendable. Men need to feel needed, so when girls are throwing around this boss bitch attitude he doesn’t feel needed, so there’s no need for him to stay around. Trust me a lot of men want families, but they learn from their uncles, fathers, friends, etc as far as how most marriages go. W divorce, usually being filed by the women. Even if he is doing everything to make her happy, these women are wound up in their emotions of my happiness over my family’s happiness. Sure I’m not going to dismiss that men do the same as well. So many women talk shit about men these days, even these young girls who are teens. We don’t need men attitudes. Which is easy to say now that they live in a society where everything is so easy for them. From cellphones to cars, computers, roads, etc. Society was built by men. Imagine if men disappeared. Delusional women say we’d run a better society but fail to realize this infrastructure would collapse w out men when it comes to things we all use in everyday life. I think men are realizing that they have a lot more to offer than women. Women usually say they bring their looks to the table, which yes is what men usually look at. But the difference is when you come in w that type of attitude, narcissistic. Then you have single moms, who yes aren’t all single cause they divorced the husband, but because the idiot left them. But single mothers, who yes some are really trying, but you have those who are trying to raise their son to be their idea of what a man should be. Which they really have no idea what a real man should be. Sure they may have seen it in their dads, brothers, etc. But there’s a different e in seeing it and feeling it, it’s not the same. So a lot of younger boys these days are turning out to be weak, feminine. I could go on forever, but I won’t. I’m just telling you as someone who was raised that way, I’m done doing that shit for women. At least for women who aren’t my friends or family. They can fend for themselves. I know there’s some of you who may have not asked for that boss bitch mentality but sadly it’s taking a toll on a lot of women, especially the ones who didn’t ask for that.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Spend a few decades working as a lumberjack, or in a coal mine, then come back and talk about "destroying your body".

But before you do, spend a few hours with a dictionary, and a copy of a set of modern divorce statistics. It ain't MEN who have commitment issues.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do women think they take all the risk when men do all the work?

See how that works? People see what they want to see.

Also if this is your attitude you probably should probably never have a family. Because they deserve better. Yes, it's a sacrifice. But it's generally one a mother and a wife WANTS to make.

Anonymous · Answer

Wait, what? Half of marriages don't last, and it is women who file divorce in the vast majority of cases, and you think it's MEN who have commitment issues? Come on now, how about a little honesty. It shouldn't be a surprise to anyone why today's men are affraid to get married.

JesseP1nk · Answer

Men have commitment issues? Huh? You might wanna check the stat how many divorces are initiated by women

Anonymous · Answer

There are a lot of financial consequences for a man who commits to the wrong woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Half of marriages end in divorce, women file 80% of them and men get screwed in divorce court and child custody. Which part of that are you struggling to understand?

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