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Even girls like me stop talking with me immediately. I don't know if I am an asshole or not enough asshole for them to like me. Maybe I am a very nice guy and they love assholes. Or I do some asshole things and then they run away. Test me. I don't know myself. Please test me. I will be myself when you test me.
Watch about 5 James Bond movies, at least 2 with Sean Connery. The reasons Bond gets women is that he's physically fit (not a jacked body builder, but fit), he's confident, generally has a positive, "nothing is gonna bother me" attitude, is not afraid to show his interest in women, but most importantly, doesn't care even a little bit if a woman rejects him, because he knows the world is full of others.
These characteristics mean that he's emotionally stable and unflappable, and confident in his ability to handle himself. He has zero need or desire to brag or show off, he just goes about his mission, interacting with people he meets along the way. He's clearly got a dominant personality, but he isn't looking to force it on anyone.
All of these things make him a magnet for women. Not ALL women of course, but lots of them - far more than he needs to live his life well.
If you study any man who seems to get girls effortlessly, you'll notice that they all have their own mission, and they don't spend any time or effort worrying about what other people think about them - they are focused on their own personal success. They live with confidence and purpose.
I suspect that if I had video of you interacting with women, these characteristics would not be readily apparent. I could be wrong - I obviously don't know you or anything more than you have shared, but it's worth thinking about, and possibly realigning your thinking.
Changes your own thinking, from a system that clearly doesn’t work to one that does, is simultaneously the easiest and the most difficult thing to do. There are zero outside factors holding you back from changing your thinking, but most people find it incredibly difficult to humble themselves and admit that their way of thinking was wrong - but that's a necessary step towards making the mental changes that can bring real success.
If from scale 1 to 10 you are 7.5 or above, it doesn't matter if you are an A hole or not, you would be getting all the attention and they won't be turning you down regardless of how you act or talk (to a certain point of course) But you not getting girls, is telling me that you are probably an average looking guy, your wallet is not thick enough for their taste and you have no power or fame that they are looking for.
Always remember this formula 90% of all the women are trying to get Top 15% men and those women who settled for less, is because they either have been used up to the max or already expired (30+ years old). The more men they are sleeping with, the quicker their value drops.
Do you want to drive a neglected and abused 30 year old Ford Focus that has 350,000 miles on it?
You sound like a desperate creep who reads too much 4chan and thinks like an incel.
Maybe... Start with some therapy.
Probably because you're aan in you're thirties asking questions that most high school boys have already figured out.
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