My boyfriend posts our pics but ignores me?

Question

Today he cancelled our date after work , saying he is very tired and we better meet tomorrow.

During whole day he didn't send me any message, well no, he actually resent me a video of our vacation saying "that was funny😂"... I responded with "yeah🤣"

Thats the only message in whole day.

Then i noticed he changed his profile pic of us 2.

And in his status he changed : "Viva la Vida" to : "😻"

Now... umm i dunno if tell him good night or talk to him at all tonight?

I sent him an icecream i bought-no reaction

(I changed my profile pic to us too) Whats going on and should i say good night or no?

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

Plehse help: I go huntin' in mountains. Girlfriend send me 5 puff of smoke from fire. I send back 2 puff smoke when rain stop. Then 10 puff smoke whe sends and I don'tk now what means? So I no get any food and walk all day back to home and ask. She really mad, said you send smoke too late and not enough puffs. I said "oh, how I supposed to know that... and beside was raiing". She said, not raining here... go back and catch antelope, I'm hungry, we gonna starve. So I go back out hunting... same thing happen. What I do with woman... I confused?

I loved reading your post so hope you enjoyed mine. My point is you are not communicting well with tis other person and there's clearly some "who are we, where are we, what are we" questions going on... e. g. security. That needs worked out. There's avoidance and peering into online for "messages" and that is passive indirect communication.

You need to stop being passive and become active and address the core issues in the relationship. He should but he may not, and he has his own issues. So get together, learn to communicate, and stop sending "puff signals" like 10,000 years ago.

ignore the spelling errors, spelling is over rated anyways... you know what I said without spelling. Same thing happens with other communications... we fill in things from our minds to make sense, but sometimes, it's not what the other meant or intended... so must get clarifications as to what is meant.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

He's probably sick of you. Men get sick of their women nagging at them all the time when they go out maybe that is what you are doing that is why they lie and say they are tired. If I am tired but I love hanging out with my girl that would never be an excuse because she energizes me not makes me feel oh god not again. Look inward and see what it is you might be doing to make him lie that he is tired LOL No guy is tired if he enjoys your company.

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

Well first of all, he didn't ignore you. He talked to you and explained why he didn't want to go out. That's not the same thing.

People in partnerships and all sorts of relationships do it all the time. I often times tell my mom I don't want to talk to her on the phone because I don't feel like it or I'm busy. Doesn't mean I don't love her or won't end up talking to her later. I do this in my marriage too. My husband will tell me he's not in the mood to go out for dinner and just wants to sit in his man cave. Doesn't mean I did anything or we won't end up going out another time.

People who love us are allowed to not feel like doing things at all times, whenever we want them to, even if there are plans. Things happen, just as they may for you at some point where you'll want the respect of being able to do what you want to do on your own.

Justmisscurious · Accepted Answer

It’s verrrryyyy possible that he still wants you in his life, but at the same time he could feel smothered. judging by your level of anxiousness, it is possible that you could be too clingy/ smothering him a bit and not giving him enough “space” to “breathe”. Just match his “pace”.

GunFhulangas · Answer

Honestly take a chill pill.

He could very well be tired.
Not everyone has the luxury of doing little as a job or just sitting at home.

The emoji is a heart, you know right? You comprehend what a heart means, right?

Calm down. Men don't like insecure clingy women it's unappealing. They want someone who can survive without hyperventaling over nothing.

Anonymous · Answer

since he said he's tired, why aren't you asking how he's doing? if he got rest? if he needs anything? etc? sounds like to me he's not even really ignoring you. he was engaging in conversation, sending those things, and the only thing you said was yeah with an emoji. ? maybe start a conversation that's more engaging?

spartan55 · Answer

Jesus Christ relax woman! Just reading this made me want to stick a fork in my eyeball

Anonymous · Answer

You are reading way too much into every little thing.

Guys are simple. Stop over thinking your way out of this relationship. Listen to the words he actually says and stop looking for hidden meanings that aren't there.

catarecute · Answer

dont say goodnight and dont listen to 40 year olds insulting you on this site. i think the guy is playing games or he doesn't really get you but just keep cool and keep living for yourself.

RingOfFire · Answer

Doesn't sound good offhand. Sound like he wants to use you to show off but doesn't really care about you. But it's impossible to answer these questions because context is everything and there is only so much context you can write about here.

Paris13 · Answer

He is Feeling Guilty and Put up the Pix but I Feel you are No Big Deal. I'd drop Him. xx

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

You sound exhaustingly high maintenance. That is why I stopped dating 20-somethings.

leahzrc · Answer

kind of weird the whole thing. Just don't ask him why

Jkgordon · Answer

Actions speak louder than words. Start loving yourself and never mind plans with him.

JosyJosy · Answer

It's hard not to ignore somebody when you're tired;

Anonymous · Answer

It could be that he's starting to lose interest

BigDog1989 · Answer

People take social media wayyyyy too seriously

Staximus · Answer

You sound like you're in high school

driven159 · Answer

no say goodbye

lphin · Answer

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