How Do You Make A Guy Realize He Is Losing You?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Honestly, he had either already lost you and he does not know it yet.. and it's you who probably just now coming around to that fact. All I can do is tell you this, people do not really change all that much over time.

Note please, I did not say people do not change, because people do change and they can change a lot, for the better or worse. But they do not really change all that much at one time, it takes months if not years or more. So in that way they don't real change all that much, because at any given time they can relapses, or come to resent you for pressing them to change before they are ready to change.

If you want this guy to realize he is getting ready to lose you, then you leave him. Straight up leave him and see how he responds to it. If he really loves and cares about you, he will fight to get you back.

I am just saying if you are feeling this way, I do not know when enough is really enough for you... but you are on the way to that place and you might already be there and not known it yet.

Look I was married for 24 years to someone that never really changed, like they would get better for time, then revert back to craziness. They would be great for few weeks or months, and you would really start to appreciate them... then they would flip out and go crazy for a day or two... then start it all over again.

If you know for a fact, he is losing you, then you might already be lost to him... but you are not being honest with yourself and therefore not with him either. Trust me I been there done that, got the T-shirt and buried and spread the ashes of that marriage at sea.

Pegases · Accepted Answer

Men and women don't think the same. On fact, our brain are literally wired differently. Women brains have more neurons that extent from each hemisphere of the brain, while men's brains have more neurons within each hemisphere. This is why women tend to access more emotion, while men tend to access more logic (which is isolated to one side of the brain). Thus, one of the biggest mistakes I think both men and women alike make, is assuming that what a man knows, a woman should, or vice versa. The reality is that we simply don't view the world through the same lens, nor do we show our love the same way. And that is by design. We like each other because we are different. So I say all that to say, simply tell him. If he cares about, he is going to try to fix it. If he doesn't, then he won't try, and that's when you move on. But if you care about him, don't walk away without first telling him what's on your mind.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

From my experiences personally and from friends guys generally don't realize it regardless how you try to tell them until after your gone. That is when their regret begins.

I should note that this same situation can also be true the other way around as well!

Radiate143 · Accepted Answer

They don't care honey. Get in with your life. And they regret for 3 seconds and will just do the same crap again.

Jersey2 · Answer

It would have to be a very open conversation but not confrontational. You need to know that people don’t change that much but you may be able to get him to be a little different but not completely different. At best he will simply remember you don’t like something and avoid do it.

But maybe you issued is just that you have been together a while and a bit of the magic is gone which is normal in amy longterm relationship. For that you will need to look at reigniting the passion which there are tens of thousands of articles on.

Giddyup · Answer

There is almost no point in any person trying to make another do or realize anything. Put that in the relationship context and it is compounded. If you genuinely like this guy, do your best as a partner, within reason, if he doesn't reciprocate to your desire, then someone else will.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

The problem is women leave hints and post things like this to her friends and other women online while the guy is aware something might not be perfect, but he isn’t aware it’s a big deal. You need to make your case to him for him to understand. Otherwise women tend to talk themselves into leaving their man and it totally blindsides him when if the communication was better there could have been a better resolution.

havingfun2023 · Answer

I'm sure there's a number of ways, however that stock image of the guy in the stock photo during the GAG feed, his biceps are impressive to me, with my own small biceps. And I don't even work out. Thank you kindly for the question. Back to the question, I suppose people become more distant. Anyways, biceps 💪🏻💪🏻👀 I hope women often like my small biceps, for the right sorts of short women I prefer attracting 🙃😋♀️♀️😄👀👀💪🏻💪🏻

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

You just tell him. We don't care about your subtle signals, and they aren't going to work in the 11th hour of a relationship because if they didn't work the rest of the time they aren't working now, and if they DID work, it wouldn't be 11th hour.

He may already know he's losing you and just not care... so... ready yourself for what may be a painful conversation. I wish you well. Whatever happens... it's just temporary.

Finchie40 · Answer

Be honest with him and tell him you no longer what the be with him and tell him the truth as the f reason why? Don’t try to sugarcoat shit , if it’s because you want to date other people , be honest about it , don’t just say what you think you want him to hear be Honest

ManOnFire · Answer

Listen. If someone is not trying to stay in your life, or they don't care if there's a possibility that they could lose you, let them go. Only then will they snap awake and realize what they had. And when they do, don't take them back.

Anonymous · Answer

Easy: you leave him, then block his number, tell your family to cease communication, and if there are any of his things still at your place, you 'misplace them' so he has zero reason to come over anymore.

Been done to me, so now I know what to do to anyone else.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You tell him. If he doesn't step up, you move on. No second chances.

fuddly · Answer

It is a good question

Saying things doesn't necessarily work

Behaviour.. Getting angry, small sniping would be expected if you now and that won't help

So i can't suggest anything... Be nice, and hope for the best. Maybe one day you will both appreciate each other again.

aquamarine321 · Answer

You can’t make a guy realize he is losing you if you’re not the one, plus if he thinks he is losing you, is it for the write reason because not every guys will she you as marriage type you’re either his side piece or wife

jojoiwiwbwjo · Answer

Hey we need to talk *sits down* look... sigh... I think you're losing me, and the way things are going i dont know how long it will last.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Talk to him you need to tell him directly, communicate with him about your perspective as some guys don't have clue

Anonymous · Answer

There is no way to give you any meaningful answer to this question without knowing more about your situation. It's like asking how do you do the right thing. Well, the answer depends on a ton of variables.

FellowTraveler · Answer

With the simple statement 'Please leave and don't come back'

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

You could try using your words and telling him.

annabananna · Answer

A lot of times the don’t until they already lost you.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Better question, why should a guy care whether or not he is losing you?

bolverk · Answer

Be straight to the point with him, do not hint or faff around.

stratford · Answer

What would you want to do that and how do you know if he cares?

shades777 · Answer

can't make anyone do anything, however unless you two communicate telepathically, open up your mouth and speak, have you tried that?

femalepretzelmaker · Answer

You tell him and make sure you let him know your serious

gorydetails · Answer

If you have to play childish games in your relationship is it worth keeping?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just leave you ever heard of the saying you never miss the water until the well runs dry. When you leave he'll miss you then

grega239 · Answer

Have you asked him why he doesn't notice or care

In_Trance · Answer

Smh... Don't ever wonder where miscommunication starts

maroon_eyez · Answer

Communicate.. He’ll never realize until it’s too late.. Better sit and talk with open heart

BLP11520 · Answer

No physical contact and don’t talk or respond to text messages

WhitneySnow · Answer

Tell him. Guys aren’t mind readers.

aadrianaa777 · Answer

im dry during texting or i make up an excuse why i cat talk

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I'm against manipulation and cowardice, so, JUST TELL HIM.

Anonymous · Answer

If he already smashed he probably doesn't care. Most guys instinctively seek other women

catarecute · Answer

you will never change him.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

One very unique way is to tell him.

HitsyHonesty · Answer

Straight up! No beating around the bush!

Flatmanlewis · Answer

You tell him as much, straight up.

spartan55 · Answer

It's not going to work.

sheikalana · Answer

Stop giving him attention.

The_Smart_Engineer · Answer

By showing less interest in him

MJtheCoach · Answer

Nag him to death so he’ll chose peace over you!

KrakenAttackin · Answer

He already knows.

kakaling · Answer

Both of you are wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

If he can't see that by himself he doesn't care

rainbowww · Answer

By not talking to him

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

USE THESE THINGS CALLED WORDS

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Tell him

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Walk away

jahaims · Answer

Communication

balyai · Answer

Be honest

Twalli · Answer

You should tell him

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆

robocop666 · Answer

Tell him.

na123345 · Answer

No respect

eagle1951 · Answer

just tell him

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