Do I believe the man I've looked upto since I was 9 or do believe the accusation made about him?

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I've known this man since I was nine, his kinda a celebrity in my country but over the years his kinda became forgotten to most people which he's okay with. He never liked being famous because of all the attention it bought.

He had a stalker once before and lost his girlfriend atm became of it. It effected his mental health a lot and he had to be sectioned. Luckily now this woman is in prison and nothing more is heard from her now.

This man was a friend of my brothers but he'd always come play with me and teach me new things. He's great with children and alway has been. I also had a massive crush on him forever since recently with everything going on in his life ATM.

As I got older we started hanging around more together and have had a on and off fling since I was 22 years old. No one else knows as he's my brothers friend and he's not sure what we are doing is right because of the age difference and the fact he knew me as a little girl. We've never slept together just made out a few times in the heat of the moment.

But now there is a woman he used to work with saying he groomed her from a young age and but he threatened her and abused her and took unconcentral videos of her and leaked them online. I just don't believe this is in his nature and I have mixed opinions because I know there is a lot of old fans of his who are still so obsessed and will say and do anything.

But this one woman is saying a lot of stuff which at first I thought could never be true. He says she's a stalker and he has a resigning order against her and he has cctv footage of her coming to his house but she says it was because she came to his house begging for him to get rid of the videos of her.

I've listened to bouth sides of the story and have bouth begging me down on there knees to believe them and help them.

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6 mo
I'm so angry with him. I'm not saying the accusations are ture that are being made but I've just found another girls insta who was until recently claiming to also be a victim of his. There's topless photos of her In his pool around the same time me and him went out on a date together. She sent threatening messages to me and this other girl.

I feel so stupid and hurt
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6 mo
I can't tell if she's a hooker or something but she's 5 years older then me and seems to be crazy. I'm so angry I want to hit him. He's a massive liar and creep
Do I believe the man I've looked upto since I was 9 or do believe the accusation made about him?
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