How likely is it to be the same guy?

[Anonymous]

There was this mentally unwell guy *Sam* from the USA who pursued me relentlessly for 2 years. Suddenly he stopped. Then a guy who mildly resembles him physically, but with a different name, from the UK *Jack* hit on me around the same time it stopped, on social media that they’ve both used. They have a few things in common. They look slightly similar, slightly different face shape, which could be because of different facial hair, same build, same height, wear the same glasses, they both like old movies, they’re both wealthy, both worried I might be after their money, both like electrical stuff, although different kinds, both are Autistic and both have an older sister. I’m attracted to *Jack* and getting interested and when I asked him what his type was, he described me and then asked for my number. Is this all coincidental or is it likely that I’m being catfished by *Sam*?

Updates

6 mo

This is a real question. I’m going anonymous, as I don’t want to publicly air my dirty laundry, but I’m gullible and naive, so I need advice.

[Anonymous]

That sounds a lot like the same person. Have you done a reverse search of their pictures on Google. It will show you the place where the picture originated from and if originated from someone you don’t know then that proves that they are using someone else’s pictures. You could also reverse search their phone number if they’ve called you but sometimes that costs a fee but it’s worth it. There is also this website which I’ve forgotten the name of that lets you send a link in a text message to someone’s phone and when they click the link it gives you access to their location and you can precisely see where they are by using their phone’s GPS. If you watch Catfish on MTV then you’ll find out about all these different techniques you can use to discover weather someone is real or if someone is using a fake persona or not.