Why are all guys the same?

[Anonymous]

I shouldn't generalize but I hate guys. All they want is sex. All they want to talk about is sexual stuffs. Where are all the normal guys?

[Anonymous]

Lol see you seem to think men are the problem. But the problem is more than likely you as you seem to be attracting these type of men. Probably your typical girl going after the top 10% of dudes who know they can treat women like shit cause they can get all the muff they want. Good men aren’t going to go for women like yourself because they key in on things that they don’t like about her. Something is off w her. You just said you hate all guys so that doesn’t help your chance of meeting a quality man either. Plus you’re young so you’re probably all over the place emotional. Don’t even know what you really want. Even when you get what you think you want it’s not what you want after a while.

[ProbablyClueless]

A lot of guys are looking to take women seriously, but there are also a lot who just get tired of dating and decide to only go after sex. A lot of what we attract has to do with what we put out there about ourselves. I don't know how you present yourself or what you find attractive, but there's a good chance that you could change your approach and end up with different results.

[jahaims]

You either only attract those kind of guys or you are bad at distinguishing the difference so you only encounter those types. Remember, there are more bad people than good people in this world. More people want to use you than help you. It isn't a gender thing it is a human thing.

[Anonymous]

Good men avoid you because you aren't deserving of them. Hate us if you want, we aren't going to try and chance your mind. Life is short and we're going to spend it with women who have shit together and dont hate us for their poor decision making (yes, you constantly going for the wrong guys is your fault) enjoy your cats.

[Asker]

Why don't I deserve a good guy? I'm a good girl too just hating on guys who always think with their dick.

[Opinion Owner]

You aren't just hating on those men, you're hating on an entire gender.

Why would you deserve a good guy when you say stupid and hatful shit like this? A good girl doesn't hate men. A good girl wouldn't be surprised that a good man isn't going to choose the woman who hates him, his friends, his brothers, their future son... there is no life to build with women like you.

I was in a relationship with a very abusive woman, was cheated on by another, but at no point did I blame ALL women for their actions. I also recognized that there are red flags I needed to start looking out for and now I'm with an amazing woman.

Until you take personal accountability for the men you pick/stop bashing half of the population, those loser men are who you deserve.

[Asker]

You misunderstood. I meant to say that I hate all men who are like that. The guys who think with their dicks. Obviously not all guys are like that. That was really mean what you said. I was also in a toxic relationship with an ex. But maybe you're right, it's my fault. I deserve it. Maybe I deserve to continue to have bad guys and loser guys like you said. Thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

You're full of shit lol

What you wrote was mean and people are going to give you the same energy in return.

You tilted your question "why are all guys the same" then went on to admit that it's wrong to generalize, but you're choosing to do it anyway and you're choosing to hate men.

Most men and women are tired of this gender war nonsense and aren't going to participate in it. If you want to say out of pocket things about the opposite gender, we are just going to let you be miserable.

"But maybe I do deserve to continue to have bad guys" if you keep up with the victim shit and refuse to take accountability you absolutely do deserve those men. My original opinion still stands.

[Asker]

Okay thank you lol.

You're saying people but you're the only one being mean on here.

I'm not miserable I'm just upset about the topic I'm writing about.

And like I said, I don't hate all men. I'm just venting about the guys who think only with their dick, and all they think about is sex and sexual stuffs only. Those are the only guys I'm talking about. But it seems like you're not listening.

The majority of guys do think with their dick, some guys even admit it.

I'm not making it a gender war nonsense, I think you are. Others understood my frustration but you didn't. Everybody knows not all guys and girls are the same. Even I know that. It's just a title to catch people's attention. I even wrote in the description with my bad English grammar "i don't mean to generalize but i hate all guys who only think about sex and only say sexual stuffs" So you should calm down. I hope you don't talk to your girlfriend like that when you're angry because that sounds like a red flag to me.

[Opinion Owner]

If you don't want this kind of reaction then choose your words more carefully. What you said in your in question is not what you're saying now. You're backpedaling. Look at how much hate men get when they post the same way about women. You don't get a special pass becuse you have a vagina.

[Opinion Owner]

No, you said "I shouldn't generalize" you acknowledged that it itself wrong but you still decided to do it anyway. Life is about choices.

[Opinion Owner]

*that it's wrong.

I'm eating now and you're boring. Work on yourself. Be better. Or end up alone. It doesn't matter to me. Have a good day

[Opinion Owner]

Make another question and say "why are all black people the same? I know I shouldn't generalize, but I hate black people" and when you get called out for being a terrible person try defending it by saying "oh I was just venting you guys stop being mean"

You don't get to this to men just because they're men and expect everyone to be ok with it.

[Asker]

K. I don't care. You're so sensitive. I would never ask that question by the way. I already told you that's not what I meant so why do you keep going? Are you reading or are you blind? You're the one that responded to my question. You could have skipped it instead of wasting your energy if I'm boring.

Thank you for your mean words by the way. I really needed that. I am working on myself thank you very much, I just turned 18 so I have a lot to learn. You should work on yourself too even though you're almost 30. I really hate guys like you. Just because you have a dick doesn't mean you have to be a dick. I hope you choke and have a bad day.

[Opinion Owner]

I am directly quoting what YOU wrote. It was only 4 hours ago, did you forget? Go read what YOU wrote again.

And you might not have meant what YOU wrote, but it doesn't change the fact that you wrote it. Again be more careful about how you word things. This is just another example of one of your many flaws, you NEED to be the victim.

You write a post saying all men are the same and that you hate them. Those are the words that you wrote down. and now you're crying because a man responded accordingly.

I blame your parents. My daughter will never be this stupid.

[Opinion Owner]

And you're only boring becuse you won't even own what you wrote. I would have a little more respect for you if you did. You refuse taking accountability for absolutely anything it seems.

[Opinion Owner]

But I will forgive your age a little bit. But when you reach 21 and you're still behaving like this... I feel bad for everyone who has to interact with you.

[Asker]

I already owned what I wrote idiot. I just told you that that's not what I meant. I can't edit it. I don't care if you respect me or not or forgive me or not, I don't even know you. You're just a random mean person. I feel bad for your girlfriend and your daughter. I also blame your parents for growing up evil the way you did. How does your girlfriend love someone like you?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Your immediate reaction to what I wrote was to tell me that I misunderstood you. I didn't misunderstand anything. I read your question exactly how you wrote it. Don't talk to me like I'm stupid because I can't read your mind. All I have to go on are the words you wrote down.

Either say you really do hate men or apologize for writing something hateful and stupid. This is how you own what you wrote.

I treat my girlfriend with respect because she is worthy of respect. Instead of hating half of the population becuse of a few bad experiences with women, I took those bad experiences and turned them into learning experiences. Because of this I was a able to find a great woman who is a great female role model to our daughter so she won't grow up to be like you. But I'll let them know you feel bad for them tho lol

[Asker]

I kept saying that it's not what i meant despite what I wrote but you don't seem to understand. And also don't tell me what to do. And stop telling me about your life because I don't care. If you don't respect me, why should I respect you? If you were nicer, I would listen to your sad life story. But you're the only one being rude about it. The rudest "man" I met on here. If you're a whole grown man with a family, act like it. Stop telling me I don't deserve respect and that I don't deserve a good man and stuffs about my parents. You didn't have to go that far from the very beginning. Now stop texting me and leave me alone, you dick.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know how to else to dumb this down for you...

Any normal person would understand why someone would respond with a not so nice comment when they made a not so nice post. It should just be expected. You get what you give.

But instead you immediately took offense and then accused me of
misunderstanding you (the original post. There was no misunderstanding, there was only me reading and responding to what you wrote) when I didn't. That's the issue here. You're acting like I just started randomly attacking you out of nowhere. You should have just apologized for what you wrote and said "let's start over. I'll choose my words more carefully and explain how I really feel"

If you had started with "I hate men who are bad" I would have agreed with you. It would have been a completely different conversation.

If you don't care about my life then don't bring up my life lol

[Opinion Owner]

And I'm not going to stop telling you that you don't deserve respect and you deserve the men you pick. Not until you take accountability and work on yourself.

I believe in basic human respect (respect in the sense that you're safe around me and I won't hurt you) anything beyond that is earned. You have given me no reason to think you're worthy of anything other than basic respect. You've been nothing but an unlikable brat this entire interaction.

[Opinion Owner]

I am done responding to you now. I guess I won't be getting MHO on this one lol I'll let you get the last word in since it's your question.

I hope you grow up one day.

[Asker]

So you just go verbally attacking people again and again until you're satisfied just because they said an opinion you don't like? Isn't that childish and immature yet you're telling me to grow up?

You literally kept attacking me after I said i hate guys who think with their dick and I also clearly said I didn't mean it when I wrote "I hate all men" that I meant it as "I hate men who think only with their dick" wtf are you not understanding?

Like I said, you didn't have to go that far when I was clearly telling you I didn't mean it that way so fuck you.

You're the one who first started talking about my family. Like you said, you get what you give.

Oh and so I'm the brat when you were the one who started verbally abusing me because of a mistake? Wow.

I really really don't care about earning YOUR respect. I also hope you grow up one day even though you're already old.

Since you said it to me, I'll say it back to you. You deserved to be hurt in your past relationship. You deserved all of it. You're not worthy of anything either.

Be nicer next time to people. People have feelings which you seem to not have. Seriously how do you have a girlfriend with that personality?

When someone has a different opinion or says something I don't like, my first choice is not to verbally abuse them. That's rude. I only do it if they do it to me. Just like you did. You're not a good guy at all.

Don't be a dick. Do better.

I'm glad you're not responding anymore. Finally.

You've been a dick this whole interaction just because I don't comply with your rules of what I should and shouldn't do. Lmao.

Stay mad.

[NamerOfStars]

They're hanging out with women who don't hate them for their gender. Funny how having self-respect gives you self-respect.

[Asker]

I hate guys that are like that. Not all guys. I like normal guys.

[NamerOfStars]

QED.

[lildkman1090]

Sex is a natural thing but when being pursued it can get very annoying and tedious I get your frustration

[KC-Sunbeam]

Though what you say is mostly true, there are many exceptions among devout Christian men. If you were a young woman of faith, then you'd be able to find those exceptions in a church group.

[Nifrayu]

No. I'm the only one like me that I have ever met.

[Fireguy17]

Wait until you get older.
At your age group that is pretty much all they have on their mind.

[Nirmroth]

She should wait until she's 60 ?

[Reda____]

most of normal guys don't even try to talk or flirt with a girl online , or maybe ur just unlucky meeting people like this

[noohair]

That is the normal guy. It goes back to caveman days.

[DarkWinterNights]

Avoiding women that hate guys.

[Nifrayu]

Good point.

[John_Cobretti]

I won't be amazed nor I would blame you

[shades777]

they hate you do, no hard feelings lol

[BLP11520]

We are few and far between online dear

[Anonymous]

That's easy, you ignore those guys.

[Anonymous]

U attract what u accept

[Slim57]

That is a normal guy

[Asker]

So all guys think with their dick?

[Slim57]

Most of the time yep, that's how we keep life going