If a guy asks you to move in him with him, does he see a future with you?

[Anonymous]

I can’t really tell if my boyfriend wants a future with me or he asked me to move in cause he can’t afford to live on his own

[Sofargone93]

That's a tough one. It could be a mixture of both. It sounds like you don't know if he wants you to actually be with him or is he just trying to make his financial situation easier by having a second income. If you move in it could be a good thing. You'll both save money. Get to spend time with each other.. more than you want. But if you break up.. somebody is gonna have to go. And since it's his house it would be you.. unless your name is on the lease. Risky buisness.

[Asker]

We’re both signing the lease on the apartment

[Sofargone93]

Well that's good. You're both covered then.

[Asker]

But my question is does this mean he sees a future?

[Sofargone93]

Yea why would he waste his time having you around. He could easily find a female sublet from Craigslist to make up the rent. He chose you because he trust you.

[Flatmanlewis]

It could be either one. Sadly, I’ve seen some people do that strictly as a move of convenience. Financial benefits, access to sex, shared responsibilities. Be direct and ask where things are going.

[spartan55]

He could say the same thing about you.

[Asker]

What lol