I work with this guy and he and I hooked up a while back. Now, he has a girlfriend but I caught him staring at my boobs. What’s up?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I have done a good job at trying to be respectful and keep my distance. He has many times gotten a little too close and today while we were talking about something work related, he kept looking down at my boobs and then looking at my eyes again right away. He did it about 5 times in a row and then stopped. I feel like I can’t say anything to him or have one of our coworkers give him a hint because I have worked really hard on keeping things professional. I have also heard him complain to other coworkers about other women at work coming on to him. I’m not sure what to do or if I should do anything. I feel like he is crossing a line and to be honest I am still attracted to him, so I do feel flattered and not repulsed when he acts this way.
Here are my questions:

- is it possible he was staring up and down, from my eyes to my boobs without noticing?

- should I expect that he would be avoiding looking at me out of respect for me and his girlfriend?

- any ideas on what I could say to get him to stop?

- any ideas on how I can stop caring?

Thanks!

[OlderAndWiser]

"Is it possible he was staring up and down, from my eyes to my boobs without noticing?" No, he knows he is looking at your knockers.

"Should I expect that he would be avoiding looking at me out of respect for me and his girlfriend?" You are assuming that he respects his girlfriend. He may be with her for convenience, maybe she was easy to get into bed, but he would rather be with you.

"Any ideas on what I could say to get him to stop?" You don't WANT him to stop, do you?

"Any ideas on how I can stop caring?" Tell him, "If you want to be with me, then you need to break up with your current girlfriend and promise me that we will date exclusively. If you won't do that, then you need to stop looking at what you're not gonna get." And if he doesn't respond by breaking up, you'll know he just wants you for sex, and you can hate him for being a dick.

[Holsen]

Well, given that he has taken the pleasures wich come from them , it’s normal to be attracted and attentive to them again as you already know the feel or more excatly you can’t forget the feel so he is just satisfying his eyes while also having secured a girlfriend so pretty much he thinks all is going well for him. Wouldn’t be a surprise even if he tried to hook with you again

[Altheavas]

He is guy, just give him a creep look. They stare at everything that arouse them.

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't want you, you're a 35 year old pump and dump. Next question

[Finchie40]

He is a player and he doesn’t really value his girlfriend , he just likes the convenience of her , I guarantee if you came on to him again , he wouldn’t hesitate to have sex with you again, without his girlfriend knowing , he would conveniently have sex with you to get off on you , He is a guy that shouldn’t be in a relationship period because he is a player

[RedInnocent68]

It means he likes your boobs. I wouldn’t read too much into it. He’s already had yours and has another new set to play with. I have a beautiful dark sedan, wouldn’t trade her for the world. But my last car was a perky blonde convertible. Every time I see one I stare at it and fondly remember my last love…

[JacobJordan]

He's a guy. Presuming you wore a low cut short that shows your cleavage every man will glance at them at some point. Hard wired to take a peek. As he isn't acting on it safe so to say that is all it is

[Avicenna]

He's been intimate with you. It's hard to forget about that.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Girlfriend or not, guys look. Just because I go to the museum doesn't mean I want to steal the painting.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds like he's just reminiscing about the time you had together. If you want him to stop; directly tell him to stop.

[love_conquers_lust]

You misunderstand. Your tits were staring at his eyes. But voice your discomfort if it’s inappropriate.

[nawtee_me]

It is no longer professional sine the two of you have hooked up already. Even if he did not have a girlfriend, it is way past the professional stage…..

[stratford]

What were you wearing at the time? Did you have a lot of cleavage on display?

[NeverGiveUp69]

He is a dude. We like tits. You to have a history so he is going to like your tits more than others. If you want to fuck him again just do it

[Sunnybeach123]

Just let him know you don't appreciate the attention (and that yeah, you're aware of it).

[YAsQuen]

you find him attractive which means he is upper tier which means he is 100 a player actig like that

[236color]

He's human. Guys like boobs

[Anonymous]

Ugh, he is a male. What do you expect?

[Anonymous]

You did him. What do you expect.

[Jmmmfi4]

Guys like boobs... simple

[Luckycharms12]

Most have nice boobs