What do you love about white men?

[Anonymous]

They are intellectual so I can enjoy conversations with them. With other men, they often are more basic and there ain’t nothing wrong with that. I can seem basic but I’m not actually basic lol.

I love how they treat a woman gently.

blue eyes.

[Tim2nice]

I don’t know why a lot of people get triggered when someone asks a genuine question about a certain race, colour or ethnicity. People are entitled to be attracted or not to anyone and everyone. I went through a phase in my life where I only wanted to date black women and wouldn’t even look at women of other races.

[Asker]

Wow that’s amazing 🥰

True, like I know many white men don’t want me. But yet I’m ok with that. It’s not weird. It’s rare to end up with someone outside your race. They still are attractive to me.

[Tim2nice]

Have you actually shown an interest in anyone? I mean traditionally men chase women, ask them out, etc, but since you’re black they might not know you’re interested in them. Do you might have to try a different approach. Give the right vibes, smile at them in a cute way, start a conversation with them, make them laugh, make them see you as beautiful, intelligent, interesting and yes, hot. And do be afraid to ask someone you like to hang out with you. The worst thing that could happen is they say no. Some might even say bluntly they don’t date black women. Don’t take it personal. Someone will like you. Before you know it, someone might come along, sweep you off your feet and you end up living happily ever after in a palace with a couple of cute biracial children. Good luck

[jennifer_bloom]

One good thing about white men is they tend to be more manner conscious when they associate with you. I know Chinese guys that will come to your house with beer bottles as gifts, but they will leave half of the beer cans at home so they can gift it to another family too. White culture is very focused on social etiquette. Chinese culture has etiquette too but they are more focused on social collectivism and harmonious interdependency.

[Asker]

I’m an etiquette queen. I was born with classy manners or something. I’m very sensitive to it. I’m not perfect with it I still notice it in others. The collective interdependence sounds like what African people tend to have. It’s an amazing thing. Hispanics have a bit of it as well I think.

[Billlewis]

As a white guy who has dated/served Black women exclusively for many years, I can tell you that one frequent advantage is that we're easy to tease and frustrate, which can be a very useful method to keep your boyfriend sweet and docile over a long period of time.

[Asker]

I’m a huge tease

[Billlewis]

That's wonderful! I haven't gotten laid for over twenty years, and if you'd like to help extend that streak, you're welcome to keep me sexually frustrated at all times;)
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[Anonymous]

It comes to the basics. White guys always know how to treat a lady with love kindness and respect. I assume you're black

[Asker]

I’m mulatto

[Asker]

White men are the best. They’re so handsome and mysterious.

[Opinion Owner]

I take it that you only date white men

[Sonorous]

Well as an inferior black male, I don't think I'm qualified to speak on this. My skins tone isn't light, my eyes aren't blue, my hair isn't blonde. How I'm even stringing together coherent English sentences in is honestly beyond me. 🤷‍♂️

[Sonorous]

English sentences is* honestly beyond me

see I messed up. I knew it was too good to be true

[Cristinaissweet]

Nobody is inferior, don't bring yourself down.

[Sonorous]

that was satire 💀

[Luckycharms12]

I don't know born one so just try be best person you can be

[Joshydavid25]

It's okay that you have your preference, but geez.. Lmao.. n

[Extraterrestrial1999]

The same things I love about Black men, Indian men, Hispanic men, every other race.

[boggboss]

Are we just race baiting at this point?

[Asker]

I’m allowed to celebrate my preference.

[boggboss]

Nobody said u can't but claiming that race is the reason someone is intellectual isn't preference its just racist lol

[Asker]

I mean they usually go to higher education. It’s their culture to talk more professional etc. I’m not hating at all.

[boggboss]

U didn't specify a type of white man u said it in a genre liked form their are more uneducated white people then educated if we are talking about higher forms of learning

[Asker]

I didn’t know that. Where I live it’s mostly race segregated.

[boggboss]

Lol doing any level of critical thinking would help u understand this more people don't do higher education then do with plenty of whites like any other races being uneducated I think a lot of what u think of people is based on a vary limited expirance

[Asker]

have a nice day

[Bethany22]

That's a bit racist, don't you think?

[ChiTown33]

It's suggestive, not racist. She (if they're even a woman) didn't actually besmirch any other other race. You could call it leading bordering on trolling though.

[Joshydavid25]

@ChiTown33 Kinda is racist though, if she didn't mention the intellectual thing then it wouldn't have been.. She's basically insinuating that "White" guus are better.. Since racism is ultimately collectivism..

[ChiTown33]

@Joshydavid25 point taken on the "intellectual thing". Sorry @Bethany22
I stand corrected.
Maybe I didn't see it as racist because calling white men more intellectual than any other race is absurd.

[Joshydavid25]

@ChiTown33 Yes sir!

[JacobJordan]

That isn't even remotely racist. Would it be racist if she asked "what do you love about black men" or "what do you love about Asian men" what about "what do you love about Mexican men" none of those are racist.

[Joshydavid25]

@JacobJordan It wasn't until she mentioned the intellectual thing, and yeah it would be racist if she said "What do you love about "Black" men? they can sing, dance, and rap to me like no other men".. I would think that that's kinda racist too.. 😎👉.. So would you..

[JacobJordan]

@Joshydavid25 that is not how racism works mate. racism is about intention. off just the way it was written it is clear the intention was not to insult another group of people but to draw a generalized comparison. one that more often than not is true. for example black people commit more crime as a people than white people. it is a general statement that is obviously not racist. if instead one were to say "all black people commit crimes compared to no white people" THAT would be racist. the difference in the sentence is intent. one is intended to provide knowledge the other is intended to be disrespectful. even if you pull up the iq stats black people average 86-90 while white people average 100 and east Asians average 106+ meaning on a general level that statement would be true. in addition her usage of the phrase "more often" implies it is a generalization which draws from statistics. by that same line the generalization that black people can sing dance and rap better than other groups of people is also a factual statement. it does not mean other groups can't rap, dance or sing. it means generally speaking black people will be better at it. now had she said white people are intellectual where as every other group is basic THAT would be racist because it is a blanket statement of factuality rather than a generalized statement that would apply to most when compared with most of another group. another thing is the stat that says black people commit more crime is based on population of black people as a whole. white people commit far more crime as a 1:1 statistic but less when you apply the percentage of crimes to the percentage of the population.

[Joshydavid25]

@JacobJordan "now had she said white people are intellectual where as every other group is basic"
She did basically say that, read the details.. Even in the comments she said that "White guys" are better.. Same with the "Black" guys statement.. It's kinda racist cause it insinuates that "Black" guys are better.. Also we didn't need to get into the rest of that stuff.. Racism is the idea of collectivism.. You can be racist without intent. It doesn't have to be malicious also..

[JacobJordan]

@Joshydavid25 while I understand the thought process the thing you are missing as I said is the statement is a general statement. General statements as based on statistics, stats, evidence (factual things). Racism is based on non truths, assumptions, insecurities among other things. Which is why I brought up those other generalized statements we as westerners hear all the time. If what she said is racist or kinda racist then the statement "black people commit the majority of all violent crime in america" is also racist or kinda racist. Thing is everyone knows that it is a generalized statement and a true one as the stats confirm it. They also know it doesn't mean all black people criminals. So either both are racist or both are not racist because both are generalized statements that based on stats. So are we now going to label generalized statements based on statistics, evidence, and other factual information as racist? Or are we going to call genuine racism racism so as to not further water down the seriousness of it? Because genuine racism exists in America not nearly as severe as the ethnic war in Africa but enough we can call it that. As a society so many people are so comfortable calling racist and playing the race card that actual racism is starting to be viewed less and less seriously. When it is a serious problem.

[Joshydavid25]

@JacobJordan Look I know what you are getting at, and I'm not the type to call things racist, in fact I try not to even used the word often.. But we gotta call a spade a spade.. Racism isn't just "I hate this group, I hate that group".. It could be well meaning and non malicious as well "such, as somebody wanting to be a father figure, assuming your father wasn't in the picture".. An example of racism with malicious intent.. Or somebody preaching to me about not doing drugs and being a gangbanger without knowing my background. Also, I don't think the statement of "Black" people commiting half the crimes is racist.. Unfortunately it's true.. Now if she had said something like "I usually have more intellectual conversations with "White" guys" Wouldn't be racist.. I also don't think that America is racist.. I'm not one of those.. Especially since we are one of the most diverse nations in the world.

[JacobJordan]

@Joshydavid25 which is my point could she have phrased her statement better? absolutely we are definitely in agreement there. but she was not being racist or kinda racist. the sentence you listed sounds better but and this is big. it is the exact same sentence using synonyms and different word structure. allow me to show you. "they are intellectual so I can have a conversation with them. with other men they are more basic..." okay now lets place yours
"I usually have more intellectual conversations with white guys"
now lets compare the 2 sentences
the first half of your sentence the "I usually have more intellectual" is a shortened version of "they are intellectual" and the "more basic"
now the latter half of your sentence "conversations with white guys" is a shortened version of "so I can enjoy conversation with them" and "other men are"
different words, reads better, likely doesn't feel racist or look racist in any way but do you see how it is the exact same sentence just written with a different word structure and synonyms?

[Joshydavid25]

@JacobJordan There's a big difference.. With the second statement, she's not inferring that she can't have intellectual with other guys, just that it's usually "White" guys and the focus is on "White guys".. Whereas the first statement implies that she thinks "White" guys are better because they are more intellectual unlike the other basic groups.. If she didn't take the time to loosely put down other groups or just simply infer that "White" guys are the only guys she can have an intellectual conversation with (which is funny cause "East Asians" are by far seen as the smartest), I and others wouldn't have considered it racist.

[JacobJordan]

@Joshydavid25 1 sentence has implied generalization the other has stated generalization. which you can see as you also pointed it out. so if the stated generalization is kinda racist then how is the implied generalization not? this is where word choice and sentence structure can make things sound better despite meaning the exact same thing. and yeah east Asian by and large are recognized as the most intelligent. if we imply that 1 group is worse is that racist? if we state 1 group is worse is that racist?

implied or stated the outcome is the same the difference is 1 is left unsaid. which was the point of breaking down both to illustrate that they were identical with the major difference being 1 omitted the generalization and the other stated it.

[Joshydavid25]

@JacobJordan "if we imply that 1 group is worse is that racist? if we state 1 group is worse is that racist?"

Well, yes and no... If it's a criticism of the culture, or that they are simply doing worst then of course that's not racist.. But if it's a play at it a genetic factors or anything then of course I would say that that's racist.. I lost a lot of respect for MLK Jr. But I definitely appreciate the content of character statement..

But it's not just a generalized statement.. It's a specific statement.. You can say you like a certain group, for certain attributes that they may exhibit while not saying "not like those other groups"..

[Anonymous]

Credit score? I dunno.🤣

[Anonymous]

I hope you're Asian

[Opinion Owner]

The majority of white men don't like black women or have a negative bias twords them