So I’ve messaged this guy on Instagram. We only chatted for one night. It was nice and friendly conversation. We’ve never met up. Suddenly he just left me on delivered after I responded to his last text the next day and I left it at that since I don’t double text unless i actually care. But ever since he’s the very first person to view all of my stories. No exaggeration she’s literally always the first. Why is that? If he’s so curious why not just keep talking to me?
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5 mo
Bumpp
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Keep an eye on this if the pattern continues, maybe he's just always scrolling, 5 days is a small sample Size, if it continues its a crush and he's overthinking what to text
This pattern had occured for over 2 weeks
Has occurred*
That's not a small sample anymore my Boi crushin for sure
Then why he left me on delivered for 5 days and hasn’t initiated new conversation?
Trying to not sound desperate? Maybe embarrassed of forgetting to respond then just not knowing how to follow up
What should I do next?
Text at a very late hour, if he's awake he'll respond assuming he likes you
Why very late hour?
We're more likely to ignore people when it's late
What if he’s just constantly on instagram and just scroll through stories?
Over 2 weeks of being the first to view is worrying
Worrying in what way?
It can't be accidental that's half a month of repetitive behavior
So you’re sure he’s crushing on me?
Almost, I just don't know him to give it 100%
He’s med student, 33 year old and handsome guy lol. Either he’s all the time ln instagram or too shy to text me lol
Med students aren't supposed to have that much time so I assume it's the second one
he's keeping an eye on you
Why would he do that?
I’d wonder if he’s not crushing on you.
What? You think he likes me?
Yes possibly
Then why he left me on delivered for 5 days and hasn’t initiated new conversation?
Then move on
It’s annoying that he’s first to view my stories. As a guy what you think about his behaviour?