What the hell, we agreed on a one week break so I could work on my mental and physical health.
He was happy with that after a huge fight we had.
Then on day 4 with no contact he sent me a message asking me how I was.
I said I was fine and working on myself , then he said ‘woah slow down don’t change everything too soon or too fast’
I’m so confused
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Honestly a week is not going to make any difference , you are not going to change in a week , it takes time to adapt , and especially with mental and physical health , you will not just change overnight.
Why would he dictate how the pace of my growth is? It’s like he was disappointed that even started to look after myself.
All I can think of when he says " moving too quickly " is he is concerned you are going to try and change yourself in one week , he may mean it as a positive - Ask him?
I didn’t see it that way, thank you
Give him a chance , its impossible to just completely change in a week , try briefly talking about it.
Confused about what?