So my ex dumped me over a year ago via snapchat like a jerk, for a stupid ass reason instead of talking to me about things...
fast forward to now and he suddenly messages me out of the blue to "say sorry for how he left things and he feels bad" he apparently realises what he lost etc.
Me being a polite person I respond and somehow we have general small talk... that's where things go odd...
he starts trying to turn me on or flirting with me (he belongs to a church so pre marital sex frowned upon so I assumed same goes for that type of messaging) anyway I kept turning down his advances gently as at the end of the day, he hurt me and he only just started to message me, I'm wary... but he was respectful about it and so we chatted normally and he would bring up things he remembered about me which tripped me out a bit because I didn't realise he remembered that much. And he mentioned he'd like to catch up for a coffee one day. I said one day we could work out planning that...
But now it's back to peace and quiet, no messages lol I'm so confused as to what the heck that was all about? 😅
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He is in a major slump and was hitting you up for sex. Once he realized he wasn't going to get it, he went away.
He is part of a church and sex is frowned upon. Even when we were together was the same. That's why I'm confused because I'd have thought sex usually but this situation is a bit different due to the church stuff
Just because it's frowned upon doesn't mean he won't have sex.
Thank you for your viewpoint. If it was a typical guy I'd agree but he dumped me over a disagreement relating somewhat to sex in a way so that's where my confusion lies as he maintains the same stance he had when we were together (we were only intimate once in our relationship) anyway if that is the case then it's interesting considering his stance on it is all
Maybe his stance changed. Even holy rollers get horny.
He said that it's still frowned upon to the act of it but who knows haha