Is he playing game or really mean he think as his sister about me?

[Anonymous]

He is a player and at first i mentioned that I won’t have sex with him but he is still around and I don’t send him any text message or posts but he send frequently texts to me and sometimes a little bit of flirting but now he sent a post to me that was about mention some one who is not your blood sister but she is your sister

what does he mean? Is he playing game? If not why he is still around and text me he can cut the relationship

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a weird situation. A couple possibilities:

- He could totally be playing games and just saying that stuff to keep you interested without committing. Guys like that suck.

- BUT... it's also possible he genuinely likes hanging out with you and wants to take it slow. Comparing you to a sister could be his weird way of saying he cares about you.

- Thing is, if he wanted a relationship, he'd make it clear and not keep you guessing so much. That would prove he's playing it safe.

I'd say call him out - ask what exactly he's looking for from you. If he can't give you a straight answer, then you'll know he's just tryna string you along.

You deserve someone who proudly calls you their girl, you know? Don't settle for any games or mixed signals. Let him know what YOU want too!

If after talking he's still wishy-washy, I'd say leave the ball in his court but don't sit around waiting. You're probably best moving on and finding someone who's 100% sure about you. Hope it works out!