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Should I break up with my boyfriend for calling me fat and was it that bad that I called him childish? (Page 2)
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I’ll say not unless he says you need to exercise to stay with him and you’re not that overweight. If I think a girl is I’ll just invite them to workout with me like a lot but for their good. I think both are childish. I hate being recorded unless it’s me doing or I’m knowingly being recorded and want to. Like who are you showing it to and why are you doing it. But him ignoring you I could see a day but if it’s extended period of time then it’s hella childish
Right off the bat, turning away and putting on his headphones was very immature. And then he got much worse. That guy acts like a child.
I think he showed his true colors. Dump his sorry ass. He's only a boyfriend.
Facts 🙌
I won't break up , i don't think that is necessary , but will sure do something about it , i like the way i am , the way I look is some cliche stereo typic dialogues , those people are actually lazy , and the worst part is they say they are being targeted and body shamed
Who would you rather hear it from than not someone who loves you the way you are and share your most intimate moments?
I'd be pissed if for any amount of years my significant other lied to me about something like that. To further prove my point that he cares, is that maybe he was prepared to help if he had mentioned it. If that's not love by him being honest to you and had a plan to help you be your best, I don't know what is.
Get rid of him. Life’s too short to put up with this kind of shizzle. You deserve better.
It sounds like the two of you have been having problems for awhile and it’s a lot more complicated than him calling you overweight.
You should communicate with him and figure out why he said you were fat communication is key if you truly love him and want to be with him then try and work through it figure out what's going on and see if you can work things out
Ummmm at first I wanted to reply that no, I wouldn't break up with my boyfriend for calling me fat. He could be angry, or teasing me, or just being objective. But then I read there was a lot more to that story and from the rest of his behavior he seems quite toxic and seems like he is trying to make you to break up with him for some reason.
Leave now! Pretend he's a house fire, and run. if you fall, tuck and roll. whatever you do or how you do it just get away now. it's a toxic relationship. Once words are used with such malice and hands are laid on you in aggressiveness then it only gets worse.
Is it out of character for him to behave this way? If so, it seems like the real him is showing himself because he's not happy in the relationship. Sounds like he is frustrated snd unhappy. He is definitely immature
Once a relationship shows signs of any type of abuse , that's when it's time to end it. If two people can't communicate effectively, the relationship will become toxic.
Yes, breakup with him. He is really sensitive and also verbally and a little physically abusive.
Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.
Right these trolls post the same bs regularly
@DreamLife7
Tell me/us about it! smh
I think I remember you from years ago. I mean your username sounds familiar back when I used to use this app.
Yes you should breakup with him. Do not ever stay with a man who insults your physical appearance because he means that.
I was on your side until riiiggghhtt here "I pulled my phone out to start recording him"
It appears that this reunion is unhealthy. You might try talking to him, I guess, or just end it, although that can be hard. Best of luck with whatever you decide to do.
why is it that you are still unsure about what to do?
She isn’t lol, she also is part of the problem who tf tries to record an argument with their partner? Why do you need evidence? If someone is horrible to you in a relationship you leave, unless you have further motives.
Also her reactions on this post to people disagreeing with her or sticking up for her partner speaks volumes about not just her but their dynamic, I think like another user here has already stated this isn’t the first time and I think this definitely was her pushing her partners buttons to try to get a certain reaction out of him. People like this will often have a long line of “Toxic ex’s” with the only common denominator being them and a story of abuse. It’s self victimisation and in my opinion a slap in the face of all true victims.
didn't say anything about who the problem is or who isn't, whatever it is the relationship should be over.
Agreed before it gets any uglier, sorry by the way I didn’t mean to imply that you mentioned anyone was at fault l think I just got carried away venting on the net because I’ve been in the shoes of someone who’s being made out to be something they’re not.
Yea some people like to play the victim
Sure if it was use to consistently in crude cruel hurtful demeaning manner
Than for sure
Is this some sort of game where you try to see who can be the most abusive? Because if so, I think you're winning.
If you’re going to be abusive, you deserve to be recorded.
She literally said that before recording him he used to ignore he and make her feel bad, he seemed to me like a narcissist, but since there's not enough evident proof, nor have I witnessed what happened, then I can't judge nor assume.
@curious_gul thank you. also his mom has gone to the looney bin and is a diagnosed narc, he always exhibits splittign so he has some mental issue presumably.
Are you fat? Because if you are he doesn’t like it. Furthermore it seems you two are not compatible. What is your astrology and his sign too.
Clearly, he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Let him have his own company.