Looking like he doesn't know what to say. When i bring up smth, he answers but can't keep the conversation going.
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Ay that's a tricky situation. My guess is this dude likes you for sure, otherwise he wouldn't be bringing gifts. But it sounds like talking ain't his strong suit.
A couple possibilities why he's not the best communicator:
- He may be shy/introverted and finds chatting hard, even if he wants to. Social anxiety is real.
- Could be he's just not that great coming up with things to say on the spot. Conversations don't come naturally to some bros.
- Longing could be more of a "man of action" so shows his interest through gifts rather than gabbin'.
I wouldn't overthink the poor chatting too much yet. He's still making an effort in his own way by giving you stuff.
But if you want more back-and-forth, maybe tell him straight up you like spending time talking too. See if opening up gets him to open up more too over time.
Guy probably just likes you and doesn't know how to balance the gift-giving with quality convos. Give him a chance to step up his game if you feeling him too!
I would say he´s very insecure but he still likes you and therefore tries to show it bringing small gifts.