Nudity is involved…?

[Jay_needsHelpPlease]

So I was hanging out with this one person, that I barely met. We hung out for like a week, and somewhere in that week we decided to drink one night and I got crossed faded…or unless that person put something in my drink because I knocked the fuck out…. all I remember was we were drinking some beer in a living room on a couch, and we got close like cuddling, we talked about ourselves a bit but mostly talked about myself, and I guess I passed out and I woke up in the middle of the night by the person, I got this sudden urge to have a look in his phone to see what I could find about him…. because like I said I had a feeling that was off…like something told me to look into his phone and the half of me was like just browse around, I go through photos and I saw myself…. fully naked and I wasn’t awake. And I didn’t know how to feel…because it’s my first time ever having to hangout with the opposite gender…. there’s more to the story but this is what I have a question about…. why would he do that?

[_Maya_]

I am so confused. Did you send him nude photos? I am guessing no because you were so shocked at finding on of yourself. Did you wake up without clothes on? If not that means he undressed you (somehow without waking you up) and then put clothes back on you (again somehow without waking you up). Here is the equally disturbing thing to me. If you felt off about this guy then why in the hell would you drink that much around someone that you obviously don't trust? Also not cool to go through other people's phone. Now on his part? Seriously not cool having a nude photo without your consent. Unless I am missing something here then you need to stay the f away from this guy.

[Jay_needsHelpPlease]

I don’t remember because I had drinks and I forgot to say that it was my first time drinking…i use to just smoke marijuana. And I never got his number or anything to contact him because we never got to talk about it at that time, I was fully dressed, when we started talking on the couch. But when I woke up I was undressed, I dranked because I was having issues with life and I didn’t know how to help myself… I was 18 and I guess he was way way older than me, which I didn’t know because he looked like he was 19 💀 I should of already downloaded this app long time ago to ask this question I had for 2 years ago.

[_Maya_]

This happened two years ago?

[DubiousIntentions]

@_maya_She was probably drugged.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That sudden urge is instinct, never failed me and it looked like it clutched it up, tell him that you went through his phone (which isn't illegal) and threaten that you are going to report him to the police I'd he doesn't delete them.

[Jay_needsHelpPlease]

I was thinking of doing that, but in the moment I thought to myself about the negative impact.. it would bring. When I was looking through his phone I remembered when we were in a vehicle he got a call, and he made it sound like he was talking to a dude one of his “buddies” he said to me that his buddies name is Bush, After he got off the phone…
so that night when I checked his phone in messages after I saw my picture, I opened the name Bush to see if he sent it to him or anyone else, I read that it wasn’t his so called “buddie” it was his girlfriend or maybe wife 😕 I freaked out

[ChicoFromThe305]

Damn that dude is just straight up full of deception, I believe you should find a way to get your photos out of his phone, these men make other men look bad, I promise you not all men are pervs but this one is and he has a girlfriend on top of everything, I think maybe you should start being more careful and maybe get to know people a bit more before letting them not only in your home or entering their home but also before getting intoxicated, there's a lot of weirdos out here and this was a much better result than what happens to women out there, id genuinely really hate to hear something happen to you, even tho I don't know you, id say find a way to get those pictures off his phone and be more careful missy, this time it was just pictures but you were in a spot that could've been much worse, I'm not saying it's bad to have a trustful heart but people can take advantage of that and it's best to not be that trustful so fast.

[AviatorTom]

You put yourself in a situation that you later decided you didn't like. Take part of the blame yourself... it's not all his fault.

[DubiousIntentions]

True, play stupid games, etc.

[Jay_needsHelpPlease]

Well I’m not blaming him I’m just trying to find my answer about what it means.

[stratford]

You should discuss with him what happened that night, see if he brings it up. If he doesn't then you know something is very off.

[syncheart]

To me this is just another lesson to teach others what can happen when you drink.

[236color]

You were probably drugged and definitely sexually assaulted.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Looks like he slipped you something, took off your clothes, and took pics of you undressed, apparently.

[Anonymous]

Cool story bro. You may have a future as a fiction author.

[Ruenella_]

Because he wanted to.