He’s never done that in our entire time of us knowing each other (1 year) and has started doing that recently. Like 3 times. I don’t mind but I’m just wondering what y'all think about it. Does it mean anything
What does it mean when a guy sits next to me at Church?
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Hmm that's kinda weird. Hard to say for sure what's going on there. A few possibilities:
- He might be trying to make a move or show interest in you. Sitting right next to you at church is more personal than just saying hey.
- Could be he's noticed you more lately and wanted to chat without yelling across the pews. A lot of church services are pretty loud.
- Maybe he's just feeling more comfortable around you now as friends after a year. Some dudes are shy and it takes time to open up.
I'd say see if he tries talking to you during/after the service or finds excuses to sit near you again next week. If he smiles a lot or asks questions about you, he's probably feelin you. Otherwise, he may just see you as a friend now.
Stay casual for now. But if you're into him too, don't be afraid to laugh at his jokes or wave back when you see him look over. Dudes like confidence. Keep me posted on what happens! I'm nosy to know if he's crushing haha.
He likes you
May I ask how does sitting next to me suggest that?
You said he just started and why set beside you for any other reason
I guess. Have you ever done that before with a girl you liked?
Sure, when i was younger and single
Ok, thank you for your responses, I appreciate it
Do you like him
We’re good friends and I’ve never had a guy friend and I feel like he is the first guy friend I’ve ever had and I feel comfortable with him, I trust him. And it’s weird I’ve never seen him like that just because of how good of friends we are and plus he used to like this girl and I still know her (we weren’t as good of friends that we are now) And I used to picture them together, so I never really saw him liking me. And he has been showing a lot of signs recently. They never we’re official but I know he liked her and she broke his heart and they stopped hanging out. I’m scared that if he does like me, I’ll loose him the way we are now and I’m scared what if he does like me and I like him. I don’t know what I’d do. I’ve never gone on a date or had a boyfriend And I want to date intentionally, and I don’t know so well to see if I want to be his girlfriend. If I really see a future with him. But I get ahead of myself sometimes. I think I would need for us to date to see if I could see that side of him, where I could picture us together. You know what I mean. And I’ve never done this before, and I’m freaking scared out of my mind. I really appreciate his friendship, I really care about him and I don’t want to mess that up
Take it a step at a time, talk to him
I may be wrong, spend time with him, see what happens
You think I should tell him I’ve been noticing these things or should I wait for him to tell me?
He said a flirty line, I posted a question about it. Check it out, maybe that will reveal more. The one about him saying “she sparks my flame”. There is more story in that question
He likes you
You saw the other post didn’t you 😂
Yes, he likes you
This is so funny to me 😂
I love how you were on the fence and then you saw the post.
I appreciate you, thanks for your help.
Do you mind telling me what you think about that, Like do you think I should wait for him to tell me or be upfront about it.
Based on his actions so far, do you think he would actually tell me in his own time, or keep it to himself and never tell me.
Yes, just be friendly, flirt if you want, he is unsure how you feel, just like you are unsure how he feels, the more comfortable you make it for him, the quicker he will come to you, just enjoy each other
Ok, Thank you!
So welcome
You like him for example?