Is he really into me if he's taking this long to respond?

[Anonymous]

Yes another one of *those* posts
Yes I know people are busy. Yes I know people have a life. And yes he even told me he's trying to be on his phone less, but I'm still overthinking all the time

He messaged me last month (I've seen him at concerts a few times) and we've been talking everyday ever since and he sends very long texts, like paragraphs only and I do the same with him. Recently he told me sorry he's taking so long to respond, like he's still sending very in depth messages but this past week only once a day. Yesterday he told me he's working really hard and he's exhausted and I told him some nice words and that it's okay but I'm still worried he doesn't actually like me like that, though he's been telling me some very deep personal things and he's suggested meeting up few times and I said yes two weeks ago. He's set a location but no date yet, he said in 2-3 weeks so it should happen soon? Yesterday he brought it up again, he said "I would like to get out of the house more again so I'm happy if our plan works out"

This is a good sign right? But I'm still so worried all the time that he's not into me as much as I would like to think. Don't come for me please lol

[spierjames]

He prob likes you as a friend honestly try to maybe dig in more. Dont be in it straight asap

[spartan55]

How often are you contacting him?

[Asker]

Whenever he replies to me it's always back and forth

[spartan55]

I'm talking about starting the conversation.

[Asker]

There's not really a start ever we have enough to talk about to always respond to a wall pf text the other has sent prior. Like this conversation has been going on since he first messaged me and it's been flowing ever since

[spartan55]

Okay. You are willing to judge his interest by text response time etc. How are you doing holding your end up? Are you doing everything you are expecting out of him?