Why guys are scared by intelligent and beautiful women?

[Anonymous]

I mean good-looking women who know their own, take care of themselves, take everything seriously, maintain their promises, not ecogentric and that don't get manipulated easily? why they scare you?

[Anonymous]

I'm more scared of the uneducated, hair-painting, pierced, extreme-LGBT (the extremist/men-hating ones, not the regular LGBT+) girls. Simply because they are very unpredictable and can turn against you in a heartbeat. Especially with false rape/SA allegations when she's mad at you or has borderline-thoughts.

I believe some people don't feel afraid but more overwhelmed or threatend by intelligent&beautifull women because that makes him be less intelligent or beautifull. It kinda makes them look lesser in status compared to others. But this is a small-percentage of men. Most men are more attracted to intelligent&beautifull women because they show to have a future.

I mean good-looking women who know their own, take care of themselves, take everything seriously, maintain their promises, not ecogentric and that don't get manipulated easily?
By the wording of your post, it partly gives me a feeling you have a negative view or experiences with this. Have you been rejected by men before or is it something else that gives you this feeling?

[Anonymous]

The only way men are intimidated, not scared by women is usually because she’s so gorgeous. So he may think he doesn’t have a chance w her. Maybe he thinks she’s got a lot of men after her so he doesn’t feel like he matches up to these other men. Men are not scared or intimidated by boss bitches, independent, women, or all these other words women come up w to inflate their heads to make them feel better about being single. Women like that are usually just annoying as hell, very argumentative. Qualities men don’t want in a woman.

[sage2021]

I think they get intimidated and may think he's out of his league, especially if they are bald and she still falls in love with him. He just cannot believe she fell for him, but she did because his personality swept her off her feet. He had to constantly be convinced in the beginning of the relationship and still always thought she was better than him. He was so loveable too.

[IslaTheWitch]

Scared? No, they are not...

Some are enjoying it :D

A lot is enraged they can't manipulate us or have the last word. They are the lost cases, lol

[AManOnTheWeb]

Intelligence is sexy in a woman. If I'm looking for a woman to potentially be the mother of my children, then intelligence is extremely important. If I end up fathering a daughter, I would want her to grow up to be a smart and independent woman. For that to happen she needs a smart and independent mother as a role model.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

They don't scare me, the intelligent and understanding women are actually the most fun to hang around with. They, unironically, are also the best detectors of BS.

It's the arrogant and smug ones who think they've got everything figured out with who make me cautious - intelligence correlates with openness to discussing new ideas and concepts to and maybe even testing them, not smugness.

[Avicenna]

Who are these mythical guys who are scared of such women? And if these guys exist, who cares? It's not like there aren't tons of other guys who would love to date women who are intelligent and beautiful. Such women get more male interest than they could possibly handle.

[Joshydavid25]

My ex was what I would consider beautiful, and intelligent.. The girl knew what she knew and she was resourceful.. I actually really liked that about her..

Some men may be a bit intimidated by a beautiful and intelligent woman but as a whole no men are not generally scared of that type of woman.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not, its the ugly and dumb women that are scary.

The intelligent and beautiful ones are attractive.

Provided she has things in common with me interest and hobby wise, I have no issues talking to a woman.

Taking everything seriously I'm not going to like though, I need her to only take important stuff seriously, and otherwise be silly and joyful.

[NamerOfStars]

Why does men rejecting you scare you so much?

And why do you think the entire GAG community is so blind that we don't recognize sour grapes when we see it?

[AaronKrieger]

What does that even mean?

I do not mean that in an aggressive way, but I am curious how we would be scared and to elaborate on how we would show it.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sometimes women like that come across rather cold.

If someone is looking for something that I'm either unable or unwilling to give them; it would be rude for me to entertain the relationship.

[strateguy632]

scared? i wish to meet. when will i meet such a rare opportunity. no sarcasm. i mean both intelligent, keep promise and not egocentric? not scared. wish to meet.

[rigmarole]

They're not. It's just an excuse you make to comfort yourself.

[HighValue]

They don't, but those kinds of women are extremely rare, especially when it comes to finding "intelligent" women.

[Nikki1989]

Some men, maybe most men, have control issues.

[Ashley1993]

They are not.. you need to stop venting your hate for men anonymously everyday on here

[Ashley1993]

You post so much to the point that we know it's the same person

[Billlewis]

For the same reason that people post about it anonymously.

[sawno]

A beautiful girl who can hold a conversation? Where do I sign up?

[Truthatanycost]

What makes you think men are scared by them?

[BoopBoopBeep]

They don't, not in the least, those are the ones we marry.

[exitseven]

i am not scared of them , I just figure they won;t give me the time of day

[DextroShade]

First off, sweetheart, nobody is "scared" of you; they are either annoyed or disgusted by you and that's why they aren't sticking around.

[Keith469]

I'm not.

But immature guys are because such women ate empowered adults who won't settle for anything less than the same, as it should be.

[MysticDevice]

That's literally the type of woman I'm looking for.

[Anonymous]

The short answer is, we're not. Seek the truth, woman.

[OddBeMe]

We hate being made fools of. We need simpleton women

[Pohjolan]

They don't scare men. It sounds like you are leaving out some context.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because very hot women rarely have much personality.

[Anonymous]

Beautiful? Yes--a little bit. Intelligent? No, not really.

[spartan55]

That's funny.

[serious]

I don't think it scares men

[Anonymous]

They are the best ones.

[Jamie05rhs]

They don't scare me! 🤷

[NathanDavis]

they don't...

[Anonymous]

Nearly every girl I know gets manipulated

[Asker]

How?

[jahaims]

Why are some guys*

[jimmy2]

Good

[Anonymous]

I am not.