He walks me to my car because "he wants me to be safe", he checks on me the next day after we are together if he knows I'm hurt or sad, he buys me random things I mention in passing that I don't have, he listens to me whenever I need it, he hugs me when I ask and tightly... not making me let go, he encourages me, and offers to help me even if it's going out of his way. Does he have feelings or is he just a really nice guy?
I'm not going to get into motive here: I think the people present can best decipher that. But, heck, at least this guy LISTENS to you, ie, you mention a random item and the next time you see him he gives you that exact item, LISTENS whenever you need it.
Heck, I've had times when I was going through rough spots, mentioned it to mentors senior to me, and they completely missed the point. And even if they missed it, they made no effort to clarify, ie, "I'm not sure what that means. Can you explain it a bit more?" - - - - never got that type of response- they just went about their day as if I wasn't there.
May start out as being a nice guy, but feelings can develop from that. Be gracious, accept what he offers, guard your heart.
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Sounds like he wants you to think he's a good guy. Trying too hard in my opinion. You probably think he's a sucker
There is a missing context to it. Why does he care? How do you do all these things together. Is he a coworker or what?
He might be a genuine gentleman. Don't let him get away, they are a rare breed.
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This is past being a nice guy. The biggest fact is he is buying you gifts of things you mention.
he has feelings snd find you attractive
He sounds interested at the minimum.
He has feelings for you
Of course he has feeling for you.
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