Does he have feelings for me or just being nice?

[Anonymous]

He walks me to my car because "he wants me to be safe", he checks on me the next day after we are together if he knows I'm hurt or sad, he buys me random things I mention in passing that I don't have, he listens to me whenever I need it, he hugs me when I ask and tightly... not making me let go, he encourages me, and offers to help me even if it's going out of his way. Does he have feelings or is he just a really nice guy?

[Massageman]

I'm not going to get into motive here: I think the people present can best decipher that. But, heck, at least this guy LISTENS to you, ie, you mention a random item and the next time you see him he gives you that exact item, LISTENS whenever you need it.
Heck, I've had times when I was going through rough spots, mentioned it to mentors senior to me, and they completely missed the point. And even if they missed it, they made no effort to clarify, ie, "I'm not sure what that means. Can you explain it a bit more?" - - - - never got that type of response- they just went about their day as if I wasn't there.
May start out as being a nice guy, but feelings can develop from that. Be gracious, accept what he offers, guard your heart.

[Asker]

I am really grateful for him. He doesn't even know... he makes me happy and gives the best hugs.

I'm sorry you've been looked over with your concerns. That hurts when someone is supposed to care and can show nothing when you are practically screaming in front of them.

[Massageman]

Thanks for the MHO.

[catsmemoir]

Sounds like he wants you to think he's a good guy. Trying too hard in my opinion. You probably think he's a sucker

[Elena_Stewart]

There is a missing context to it. Why does he care? How do you do all these things together. Is he a coworker or what?

[Asker]

We are both part of a dance group. He helped me through some issues with my ex and now he just seems to care or feel sorry for me. Not sure which. I just don't want to take it the wrong way. He is attentive to me, he notices me sometimes when I feel like others don't. I also know him to be a genuinely nice guy.

[Nikki1989]

He might be a genuine gentleman. Don't let him get away, they are a rare breed.

[Drew-1990]

This is past being a nice guy. The biggest fact is he is buying you gifts of things you mention.

[strateguy632]

he has feelings snd find you attractive

[MsTaniaUncensored]

He sounds interested at the minimum.

[LaurenM1997]

He has feelings for you

[KrakenAttackin]

Of course he has feeling for you.