Opinion on that guy: Is he really in love?

[Anonymous]

I have recently met a guy on a dating app. We met in person very quickly and he seems to want to rush things quite quickly. We have known each other for a month. After only two weeks, he was sending me voice messages in which he was literally crying because he was too scared to lose me and in which he said he really wants to be with me. Is it possible to be that deeply in love so quickly?

Now we have known each other for a month and are pretty much in a relationship and he asked me to move in with him and permanently leave the flat I am renting. Do you think he is really that sure he wants to be serious with me? If it isn't love, why is he behaving that way?

He also told me I am the love of his life (already) and he tells my friends he is happy that his girlfriend has such good friends, he drived two hours just to see me etc.

[Drew-1990]

I do not think that is love yet. It sounds like he's moving way too quickly. And I'm a guy who probably moves too quickly at times but not that quickly. I'm not saying break up with him but you might need to have a talk with him to slow down is all I'm saying.

[TheSpider]

Tell him wait a minute. Lets date for a year. this is not something you rush into.

[Asker]

Why do you think he is rushing? Do you think he really in love (since he cried in his audios)?

[StarWarGirl]

No it cannot be a love but just immaturity, obsession or drama. Whatever it is, it's not good not the healthy for you. Don't trust tears, tears can be faked or can be an indirect tool for manipulation or emotional blackmail kind thing.

Trust your guts. Use your own comman sense. Nobody fall in love like this. Nobody cries like this unless they are really attached and attachment doesn't work this way. No could get attached this quickly.

It's totally complete red Flag.

[Anonymous]

Errrrr this is a lot and too much too fast. Proceed with caution!!!⚠️

[Asker]

What is wrong?

[Opinion Owner]

Umm all of it? he's crying on the phone after 2 weeks? Moving in? Etc. A man like that is a bit unstable in my opinion. This isn’t love, it’s infatuation. You barely know him. Be careful. Give it at least 3 months before you consider living together.

[Luckycharms12]

Ya that's creepy and needy wouldn't be in rush to see him again

[laly520]

seems like he does