What is a “high quality “ man?

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Are they on tinder? Do they like ho’s?  how do they treat women?

serious · Accepted Answer

A high quality man basically refers to his thought process, his morals and the way they treat a woman. They way they take their decisions etc.

Some of the qualities of a high quality men are:

1. They don't waste their time in arguing, shouting or screaming about things. These men have plenty of knowledge about things and they know what is to be done in order to have their peace of mind.

2. For a high quality man what matter is for them to be genuine and original all the time. These men don't care about being liked or being popular etc.

3. A quality man is always self motivated to make themselves a better person and the motivation comes from themselves, they don't need an external motivation for this. This applies both in physical and personality aspects

4. A high quality man does not play any sort of mind games, be it manipulative mind games or whatsoever for any reason. They always do things the most logical way and the right way. They don't care about the final outcome but doing things the right way is what matter to them.

5. A high quality man will treat a woman with normal level of respect. Even if the woman does something wrong they know how to break contact the right way and will be mature in doing that.

6. A high quality man will never tolerate any sort of manipulative mind games played with them, irrespective of the gender. They will not hesitate to remove such people out of their lives.

7. A high quality man will always be good in the area of communication be it texting or via any other medium. They will always make sure they update or communicate if there is any delay from their side.

I am sure there are more points but according to me these are the best ones I can think off.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

You need to make a big distinction between a "High-Value Man" (these are the men that WOMEN view as having high-value, and are generally the ones most women think are the most desirable), and a "High-Quality Man", which means a man with high morals and values. MOST women don't seek high quality men, they seek high value men.

High-value men tend to be good-looking, are financially very successful, and tend to have high social status. They ALSO tend to be selfish, self-centered, very career-focused (meaning they don't have a lot of free time to spend with a woman or family), and they are often only looking for casual sex rather than a committed relationship.

High-quality men are family-oriented, traditional, have high morals and values, are generally providers and protectors, and tend to believe in traditional role models for BOTH sexes. They also require more-or-less the same from a woman (traditionalism, family-oriented, traditional role models), and they desire a committed relationship. They aren't necessarily as good-looking (a few might be), or as financially successful, or as high in social status, but they are "relationship men" TO WOMEN WHO THEY SEE AS HAVING "RELATIONSHIP POTENTIAL."

It is important to understand these definitions, because many women SAY they are looking for a high-quality man, but they CHASE high-value men, and then expect to get the best of both and the worst of neither, and then wonder why it never works out.

bkcrmas · Accepted Answer

For me is for sure how he treats his mom, sister (s), and potentially other women in his life. Does he treat them with respect while being polite? I also would look for guys who are gentleman, like opening the door for someone. Another thing is how they deal with corrections, conflicts, or just frustration. That should say a lot about their character and whether they are a “high quality” man or not.

PrettyCrumblBb · Accepted Answer

They are gentleman and don't call women "bitches" or "hos". But they also wouldn't date those women or sleep with them. Basically they don't entertain those types of women.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

A genuine man of high value is a good man, who seeks and gives love and respect for those who are important in his life. This man is faithful, hard working, true to his word, exhibits the best aspects of masculinity, and is dependable and will sacrifice for those he loves.

Unfortunately, in recent times a "High Value Man" is defined by being high-earning, very tall, and physically very attractive.

Due to social media and God-awful dating apps, women have been chasing the most abusive and entitled men in existence.

SamIam96 · Answer

It's interesting when someone asks what others consider "high quality".

You need to contemplate:

Are you asking because you're concerned with impressions? You want your friends to think you made a good choice.
What's important to you? Are you uncomfortable with guys who are on Tinder? Do you care if they've been with other women ("ho's").

I wish you'd think about what you want. Those qualities are high for you. Don't worry about us.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

@serious said it perfectly. For some reason I see no option to reply directly to his post but, it’s spot on.

I’d only add that a high-value man, or what I’d call a gentleman, is always well mannered. They live by their own code. They are not subject to whim or fancy or trends. They treat all people with respect - not just the respect they deserve but the respect he’s given to people. He is a leader and not afraid to be the lone voice of calm or reason.

Humble yet confident. Strong yet not harsh. Charismatic but not arrogant. Kind but not soft.

Women tend to almost always associate a high-value man with income, but I’d say so long as a man is living within his means AND isn’t pretending to live a life he cannot afford then it suits the bill.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would a "high quality" man is what was formerly known as a gentleman. The reason those terms switched is that the "high quality" man sounds better, it´s a term of confidence while gentleman has "gentle" in it which sounds like a weakness to some guys.
Generally speaking a "high value" man has a vision, a good paid job and he´s looking to improve himself and gives value to his environment. He´s of value because he has talents and strengths to help others or other could learn something from him, he´s confident and has charisma.
But since the term is broad I don´t think there is a fixed definition on how such a man generally has to live his sex life and his life in a relationship.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

People use “high quality” differently depending on their own values. For many men, a “high quality woman” is someone who values her dignity and is loyal, reserved, respectful and moral.
For women regarding men I’ve heard it two main ways. One includes the qualities listed above, the other version is literally “high quality” as in financially and materially.

Drew-1990 · Answer

They do not like ho's. They know how to treat a woman right. They are there for more than sex. They are gentleman. They can be on tinder but they are looking for relationships, they are probably the guys you are ignoring honestly.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

1. Not motivated by sex or sold by sex

2. Very career driven and aim to establish a purpose in life

3. Socially extroverted,

4. loved ones come first

5. Confident

6. Respectful of space

7. Don't lie or cheat

8. Respectful of space

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Same as a quality woman. Someone confident, valuable, able to love others and give back to society. Healthy and disciplined. Someone to rely on and respect

CozyCoffin · Answer

That's up to the individual to what they think a high quality person is.

CVNT5 · Answer

i don't think you would find a high quality man on tinder.

Anonymous · Answer

If you don't instinctively know this already, life is going to be hard for you.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

fantasy and myth

Anonymous · Answer

They’re a facade. They’re incredibly insecure men whose sense of self worth is ridiculously exaggerated. If you hear a man say he’s a “high value man,” stay far away from him as possible.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I have been summoned 😌🙏🏽

Slim57 · Answer

They're not on tinder

Twalli · Answer

Not on tinder

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